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Is my crush gay...........?

Ok so I have a best friend and I think he might be gay... He has a crazy fashion style and a very preppy one. He loves j crew because that's where his parents and older sister shop. He has occasional crushes on girls and such but it's for their looks. For instance, he'll be like "Oh she's so hot" or "she has a nice @ss" but he only does that occasionally. Otherwise he's a super cool guy. But, he has a lot of friends who are girls and he loves to gossip and talk on the phone with me. Also, he's never had a girlfriend. He's into cars and some guy stuff like that but he doesn't like sports at all. Do you guys think he's gay? He's this hilarious, outgoing life-of-the-party, funny guy and actually I think it'd be awesome to have a gay best friend, but I was just kinda curious. He really is an awesome guy, and doesn't seem to be interested in guys at all besides being friends (he has a few guy friends but not many). A what do you all think? We're 14 and in 8th grade btw! Thanks :)

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  • 8 years ago
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    Ooooooh, a guy who fits the stereotype of being gay. Big question, Is he gay?

    I have no idea, and neither do you, by the looks of it.

    MANY, MANY Guys will fit the stereotypes of being gay, and NOT be gay. Its called metrosexual(though many metrosexual guys dont seem to realize that their metrosexual)

    Anyway, he Might be gay. I mean, its plausible, and i would rather bet hes gay then a random person, but generally, I wouldnt assume.

    At least, if hes straight, its a good thing, and if hes gay, its a good thing. Very few "Is he gay", end up where BOTH are the better option.

    Good for you.

    Lucky.

  • Susie
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    For reference: I am a preppy 14 year old boy, my favorite store is j crew. I NEVER comment on girls looks. I do not like sports. Yet, I am straight.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    Yeah 'cause every one of those little things have lots to do with his sexuality.

    He sounds like a straight guy who is popular and extroverted. Maybe he just doesn't want a girlfriend yet.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Yeah, you can't stereotype like that. He could be, but he also could not be. have you asked him yet? That's a good way to find out.

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