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how to take it further......sorta break the ice?

I really like this guy. We talk online a bit. It's only ever been casual, never serious. I want to take it further. We don't have any classes together right now, but our school is really small. Everyone knows everyone. I'm afraid if I say anything it could lead to something embarrassing. So here's what I really want to know:

a) what could I say, or bring up a conversation about that could take it a step further?

b) what could I say that would let me know if he likes me.

I know I could right up ask him, but I'm not confident in myself. Also, he is kinda shy. Thanks :)

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  • 8 years ago

    If your friends you could causally be like 'hey wanna hang out Friday?' Or something in a friendly way and once you guys hang out some more than maybe hell ask you out on a date if he likes you more than a friend

  • 8 years ago

    well being in that situation before i can tell you this:

    1)Don't be afraid to go up to him and talk to him

    2)DON'T OVER THINK!!!!!! sometimes when you talk to a guy you really like your brain like stops and your heart feels like it will pop out of your chest but don't worry just calm down and just talk to him like he is one of your close friends

    3)Tell a joke once in a while. WARNING:DON'T be too annoying (stalk him, follow him, try to talk to him when he is/looks busy, etc.)

    4)Don't care what people say, if all else fails (in the worst case possible) and you hear people talking about you DON'T BE EMBARRASSED! we. r. humans. we make mistakes but if they r creating rumors about you just stop them, stand up for yourself and give them a piece of your mind

    Source(s): breaking the ice with my boyfriend by just going up to him casually and striking up a convo. rememeber dont be annoying or embarrassed
  • 8 years ago

    buy a new pair of clothes and ask him how they look its the best way to find out if he says they look fine or good he just wants to be friends but if he says they look really pretty on u he likes u

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