I called my best friend a *****.........and now I feel guilty?

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I'm in 8th grade, and I've got this huge crush on my friend. I told 2 friends about him, two girls that dont go to school with me and my crush. Last time we hung out, they looked through my phone and got his number. Im scared theyr gonna call him or text him wierd things and mention my name, then it would be obvious to my crush how I feel. I texted her about it, and she seemed so chill and cool, not at all guilty, I just called her a *****. It was impulsive, stupid, and not the right way to handle this situation. Swearing, especially at people, is wrong. I was just so, SO mad they had the nerve to do that and not even apologize. Should I apologize? Or should I wait and hear from her, since she is clearly at fault? And if my crush asks why random girls are texting him that I like him, what should I answer to him??

Skyline_pigeon · Answer

I would apologize for calling her a name, since whatever the case, that was wrong. However, I would also explain to her why you were so upset and how wrong you thought it was for her to do that. She owes you an apology as well. I also think that once the apologies are said and done, you have every right to ask her to make sure that she and your other friend do not text this guy. If they're your friends, they should respect that.
If they do anyway, just be honest with him. Tell him that your friends went through your phone and got his number, and they were just texting him to tease you and him. It seems like a bigger deal to you than it is. I've been texted by random friends of friends before, and it just makes me snort and roll my eyes a little; it doesn't bother me or irritate me at my friend. Whatever happens though, best of luck :)

Ashley · Answer

You're in 8th grade, don't fight over a boy. Well, don't let a boy basically cause you to act irrationally. I would apologize and just tell her that you were upset, having a rough day, and you're sorry. It wasn't the right way to handle the situation. If she apologizes, accept it. If she doesn't, then just leave it alone. You'll be the bigger person by apologizing. Don't worry about the boy. There's more out there. If he asks why girls are texting him that you like him, just be like, I think you're attractive or what not and I told my friends about it. Don't lie or anything.

Rachel · Answer

I don't think you were wrong to call her a ***** because its a pretty shallow thing to do especially if they never said sorry. I would definitely not appologize about saying it but I would maybe confront the people who did it and say this it made you really mad and just tell them how you feel. Be honest and calm when you do it and that should make them feel bad about what they did and help them to see how they were being bad friends. If they don't appologize after that then maybe find some new friends, but most likely you will be able to work everything out. If the guys asks, tell him the truth. Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

I say you try to say sorry with out sounding desperate. And if he ask just say you dont know

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I called my best friend a *****.........and now I feel guilty?

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