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just broke up with bf.... what should i do?
i just broke up with my bf of 2 years. but now i'm regretting it. but part of me has a crush on this other guy in school who i think has no interest in me. what should i do? can i ask him if there's any chance?
5 Answers
- RedLv 58 years ago
You must have broken up with you ex for a reason. What were they? Those reasons will still be there if you got back with him tomorrow.
It's always a good idea to carefully weigh up a break-up - once it's done it often can't be undone. If you think you've made a mistake, you'll have to think carefully about why you did it, and why it was wrong, before you head back to your ex asking for another chance. Otherwise, how can he believe it when you say you want him back? He might think you'll change your mind the next day about that too. I'd wait a week or two at least before discussing it with him, so that he knows you've taken the time to carefully think it through.
You haven't explained why you are regretting it. Are you bored? Lonely? Have you had time to get used to being single? There's nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend for a little while. After 2 years I'm sure it would be an adjustment. You probably genuinely miss him and I'm sure he misses you. But...getting back with him just because you have no-one to watch movies with now is probably not a good enough reason to start it up again.
When girls aren't sure what they want, it usually means they don't really want what they've got. Food for thought, maybe.
Good luck, whatever you decide.
- ?Lv 48 years ago
Look at the reasons for breaking up with him in the first place. Maybe if you're interested in another guy you need to try dating someone else. Just try to go over how you honestly feel.
- Anonymous8 years ago
if it wasnt too bad of a break up id try to salvage the old relationship because 2 years is a long time w/t someone :p but i havent a clue of the details of your predicament so you dont see that happening and you like this new person go for it and be hasty time is of the essence in relationships ;)
- AsiaLv 58 years ago
If you're regretting it, then jumping into a new relationship w/ somebody else won't do you any good. You need to take this time & focus on yourself, you're not in dire need of a relationship. Just relax.
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- 8 years ago
you should chill and not rush into anything new. Show some respect to your ex. Give it awhile and don't seem so needy