Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.
Trending News
Why is she acting this way?
Long story short I'm 28 and the girl who I was messing with is 23. For over a year we were just friends with benefits. We both were seeing other people and she was treating me like the s word. One day out of nowhere she fell in love. We tried being in a 1 on 1 relationship that didn't work out very well. And now I only see her once or twice a week. She sends me nasty text messages all day and night (nearly 20 per day) talking about I'm an abusive, insensitive, chain smoking drunk with PTSD, my house is a mess, my car is a mess, my life is a mess, she deals with other men and she hates my gutts. Yet she keeps on coming back 2 me! What the hell is wrong with this woman? If she hates me that much why does she keep coming back?
3 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
It honestly sounds like she's confused and she has things going on inside of her that she needs to deal with by herself, but she doesn't know how to do it. If anything, ATTEMPT to calm her down and to have a normal adult conversation with you. There is never an answer to what you really want to know unless you're assertive about it, especially with someone like her. Good luck though! :)
- JodyLv 78 years ago
Victims almost always become addicted to and enmeshed with the abuser, it has to do with cognitive dissonance, shattered self-esteem, loss of personal identity, shame and feeling powerless.
