is there something i can do to get people to love ME more than anyone else?

No one goes around getting loved instantly by all the people they meet. No matter what someone does, no matter how nice they are and no matter how socially acceptable they are, there will always be people who do not like them. And people who go around trying desperately to be liked are incredibly irritating.

The other thing is that getting "likes" has no influence on who you are or what you are really like. They are entirely ephemeral and are given pretty randomly. Many people click "like" as an indicator that they have seen something rather than as any indication of their feelings about it.

In my experience, you are more likely to get a lot of "likes" over important life events rather than over pictures.

I think that you need to realise that most people who look very confident on the outside are considerably less confident inside - but you know what goes on inside your head, you can't tell what is going on inside other people's.

You would be better off learning to accept yourself as you are - with some good traits and some bad traits, accept that people have friends of different kinds - some close, some mere acquaintances, accept that there will always be people who don't like you or like other people better - but that is no reflection on you; rather than pursuing an impossible fantasy based on something as fleeting as your looks.