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girlfriend claims she accidentally deleted all her text messages on her iphone?

ive never had a trust issue but shes been annoying me a lot lately so ive kinda held off on talking to her when ive been busy. I feel like she thinks she doesnt get enough attention from me and searches for other guys' attention and texted some peope and as soon as i started giving her attention again she said to me, oops i just deleted all my texts on accident. I dont think there is any possible way to do that on an iphone. What should i do?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Well, there's not much you CAN do now if she was on her phone texting other guys. I doubt that she could have done anything too bad via text though. My suggestion is pay a little more attention to her. Girls really need that kind of security in a relationship and if you're making her feel unwanted then don't be surprised that she's going to other guys for the attention you're not giving her. If you find her so annoying that you don't want to invest any time or effort into the relationship, then maybe you should break things off. You don't wanna lead the girl on or waste either of your time on something that's not going to work out in the long run, right?

  • 8 years ago

    I'm thinking the issue here isn't really whether or not she deleted messages from other guys or not. Sounds like you two are not really wanting the same things from your relationship right now. I think the most fair thing to do is tell her that you can't give her the attention she wants/needs and that it's okay for her to see other guys. If you don't want her to see other guys then you need to find a way to be there for her the way she needs you to be.

  • 8 years ago

    There is no way to do that, you should confront her, now that you know she's lying you can keep pushing her for the truth until she gives it to you. :P

  • 8 years ago

    talk to her and find out why she deleted ur messages on her phone. if shes looking for other guys attention then u should cut her off completely and try finding someone who wont lie or saying i never got ur text or anything like that because it seems like shes not into u shes just using u to get to other guys whenever ur busy

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  • 8 years ago

    sounds like it... talk it out?:]

    please answer mine?

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlZPy...

  • 8 years ago

    I think she was texting other guys. And honestly if she's going to play mind games, just be done in that relationship. You're young, just don't get hung up on girls too soon. That's what I'd say to me if I were to be young again.

    Things won't get any better..

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Yeah right

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