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I asked my son to draw a picture of me and he drew many details including my s** organ !?
he is 4 years old and 10 months, almost 5 .. he usually refuse to draw me ! saying whatever he draws wont look like the real me ! .. anyways so last night he drew me and he added some nice details but what I noticed was different than all his other human drawings, he drew my hair not in lines but in like some sort of circles, he drew something in my belly and said that's your belly, he add circles on the fingers saying I was wearing nail polish, and added rings to both my ears. added eye lashes, but the thing that shocked me was he drew that thing between the legs and when I asked what was that ! he said Im not suppose to say its name but I will draw a short to cover it ..
after he finished his drawing I was talking to him and I was like you know girls don't have a wee-wee u know .. and he started laughing and was like then what do you have and these kind of questions .
Im his mom, I know that this doesn't mean a sexual abuse because im a stay at home mom and I don't leave my son out of sight plus he is this kinda of child who doesn't lie and tells me everything ..
I was hoping to find an explanation for or what might this indicates ? .. does it mean he is a bit mature for his age ? or do all kids in his age draw this kind of stuff ?
I have A BS in early childhood education but yet I find my self totally confused in some cases in front of my kids ,, I do Ask him not to walk naked and not to let anyone see or touch his organs
6 Answers
- ErikaLv 45 years ago
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- jimrichLv 78 years ago
but the thing that shocked me was he drew that thing between the legs
>>Hmmm - you mean that PENIS between the legs! Are you ashamed or afraid to use the correct word? It's not a THING - it's a PENIS and you need to help him know and use the word before you send him into a SHAME BIND over it!
and when I asked what was that ! he said Im not suppose to say its name but I will draw a short to cover it ..
>> Looks like he's already being SHAMED and INTIMIDATED over the name of a body part. You need to begin his sex education NOW so he doesn't become as SHAMED, EMBARRASSED and damaged as you seem to be.
re: after he finished his drawing I was talking to him and I was like you know girls don't have a wee-wee u know .. and he started laughing and was like then what do you have and these kind of questions .
>> You need to use real, legitimate and NON-SHAMING words and correct names for body parts RIGHT NOW with him! You need to honestly and soberly answer his questions BEFORE you cause him to have a bad and SHAMEFUL relationship with the body.
re: does it mean he is a bit mature for his age ?
>> NO - he's simply READY to be given the truth and the facts IF YOU CAN DO IT!
or do all kids in his age draw this kind of stuff ?
>> YES - until some embarrassed and shamed adult (with a B.S.) messes up their minds! Then they either stop out of shame & fear induced in them by fearful/shamed adults or go on to be amazing artists!
re: yet I find my self totally confused in some cases in front of my kids
>> You're not "confused" - you are ASHAMED & AFRAID!!!!!!!!!
google: shame and begin figuring out how to undo the crippling effects of SHAME!
Source(s): SHAME & FEAR - Anonymous8 years ago
Um...it means he's really very immature for his age and that you've kept him unnecessarily ignorant.
"I have A BS in early childhood education"
(laughs)
People with education degrees don't hide from their kids that boys and girls are different, and aren't embarrassed about using proper names for body parts.
Edit: I'll let you off the level of English since I think it's not your first language.
- 8 years ago
He's simply drawing what he knows. He isn't sure why everyone tells him not to talk about those things, and he doesn't know why women wouldn't have a penis. It's nothing to be worried about. he's just curious.
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- Anonymous8 years ago
Hey miss,you are pushing your son.He is too young to realize these.