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has this ever happened to you if so what or how would u feel about it?

Once while coming home one evening i was coming through the door and started talking to my spouse about what ever my day events were. you know telling him stuff. well all of a sudden he started talking about what ever it was on the t.v. show that he was watching and was telling me about it. so later on he came right out and told me that what he had done was to change my thought so i wouldn't be talking about what ever it was i was trying to tell him. He said he changed my thought or mind to something else cause he didn't want to hear about or talk about what i was saying to him. I got mad that he would do that to me for purposely changing my mind to something he wanted to talk about or just so i wouldn't say what ever it was i wanted to talk about. DO you think this is mean of him or what? he does stuff that makes we wonder. I told him i listen to him when he comes home from work and he talks about work stuff and i said for example " u came home telling me about ur boss's brother having a heart attack and i listened to u and I don't do that to u". Then he said " well he died"! well a few days later I ask him " how his boss was doing " he said " his brother is fine now". I said but u told me he died! so the thing is He never once told me at the time that he was kidding or playing about him dieing? and a few days later i guess he forgot what he said to me . anyway another thing is one evening( we weren't living together when this happened so maybe he wanted a response from me coz he didn't take me to eat ?) i ask him what he had for supper to eat ? and he said I had chinese so i said ok. so i went inside my place ,well the next day we were talking and he told me what he had eaten for supper the night before and I said " what? You told me last night u had chinese? he said no and i said why then did u tell me that and he says well i was thinking about eatin chinese! i know this may sound silly to some. but i want to know if this is a normal thing a man does or maybe some men or just get an opinion from others . the stuff he does i don't know what to think about it. he is known to say things and not come back and say he was just kidding right away. he just leaves it at what ever he says. i have even told my granddaughter before not to pay him any attention he says stuff to her and she believes him! so i tell her not to listen to him he is being silly. just so you see how he is and what i am talking about. well thanks for reading this mess. lol

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Just block him out. I'm still learning how selfish men are. Even the good ones. It always has to be about them and what suits them.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    to answer the question : Does this ever ensue to you? do ever sense unhappy or empty for no reason? properly, you have your self stated "ever felt low...do no longer want to fulfill everyone...basically stay at domicile, on my own...think of roughly something....all this for no commonplace reason" which skill there is a few reason yet you don't be attentive to what it fairly is.Its a query of digging deep and searching what it fairly is. i assume maximum issues exists regularly because of the fact of loss of expertise.the 1st step in the direction of fixing any difficulty is definitely acknowledging that it exists. the reason being because of the fact maximum of those issues exists at an subconscious point that is affecting your habit mechanism circuitously.enable me provide a stable occasion, let's imagine there is something this is fairly lots annoying you.you want to flee from that theory-approximately worry and you attempt to contain your self in an pastime that which you savor doing.on an identical time as you're interestingly satisfied doing and taking area in it, you're continuously having this sense of worry, you dont be attentive to it yet you have this itching sensation.even nevertheless you're interestingly satisfied in doing the activity you're doing, there is something combating you from taking area in it wholeheartedly.At a unsleeping point, you're satisfied yet on the subconscious point, you're unhappy.you be attentive to yet you dont be attentive to why because of the fact its subconscious

  • hso4
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    are you ridiculously hot but you maybe talk a lot? or he's just likes saying goofy things all the time

  • 8 years ago

    clearly, he's not interested in whatever you're saying and he cares less of all the things he's telling u. stop talking to him.

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