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Breakup and getting back together advice please?

My girlfriend of 10 months just broke up with me yesterday. She was my first girlfriend even though I'm 20 now, but I absolutely knew I loved her... and not just loved her, but I knew even without being in other relationships that she was THE ONE. I really only saw myself living with her for the rest of my life, and even though I may have wanted some time to hook up with a few more girls or be on my own for a while, I can't handle the idea of us being apart. I have nobody to talk to the way I did with her, Nobody feels like her. It was like everything I did was only to kill time until I saw her again. And now that she's gone, I have no desire to do anything, I only think about her and getting back together with her, and I cant even sleep to numb everything for a few hours because I'm stuck thinking and writhing about it.

We didn't end badly at all, she still really loves me and knows I do for her. But I was in a terrible emotional place when we first met, and it must have resonated through our relationship. In the end, she realized that she hadn't been happy for a long time because she felt like I could not be consoled ever and she decided that at least the way we had been, she could not stay in that relationship. But I really think that I am infinitely better than I was, and if we were together even now it would work. She really does love me, and she regards me as her first real relationship, and that I was a truly special person to her... plus we'll be friends after a few weeks of tourturous silence.

What should I do? I should probably try to live my life and take advantage of the time I have as single now, but I really don't want to or feel like it. All I can think about is waiting a few months, and maybe (I hope not) a year until we feel alright to get back together. Does anyone have any experience getting back together with a girlfriend? Does it work in your or my circumstance? Literally all I want in life is her, I've never had many real aspirations, but I know that the only thing that makes me feel whole and complete and happy is her.

PS sorry this is so long...

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  • 8 years ago
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    Your such as sweet guy! Best thing you can do is right now whatever you just wrote, transform it into letter & give it to her with a rose & some chocolates! That would be simply amazing, and she will probably fall for you again, you can always find another girl, and if your sure she is the one worth it all then go for it! But remember, even if she turns out not to be, there is 8 billion people out there and one was especially made for you..

    Good Luck♥!

  • 5 years ago

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  • 7 years ago

    Hi I was just wondering whether you ever ended up getting back together with her? Just curious as I have just been through a breakup.. xx

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    don't do it

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