Am I in the wrong here or is he?

let him do what he want to ...why do you bother if he want to go and work more hours...let him do that...you just focus on your life with your daughter...

its not your fault and you have not used anyone for money...its his advantage too

tell him this and dont mind his words

Sounds like he is cheating seriously I would divorce him. As for housing its your right as a American citizen while n housing finish college and land a good job then get off. If I was not as fortunate as you I would want the option to have housing too. For the above comment not everyone that's on housing is lazy I work with a girl that has 5 ids and her husband decided one day that he didn't want her or the kids so he left and quit his job so he would not have to pay child support and although she work full time her ends still do not meet so just because you are doing good one day don't mean you will be the next.

Leave him! As in yesterday! Im a mom too and its one thing to be mean to me when things are rough, but my child stays the **** out of it! Dont ever let someone stay around your child that is like that. Hes already being emotionally abusive to you. Its just a matter of time before he starts doing the same thing to your daughter and making her feel the same way you do right now. Protect her! Thats your job! And that job is so much more important that any job that pays money. This man could screw up your daughters head for life. Youre letting her be in a home with the possibility she'll be emotionally abused and I went through that growing up, trust me you do not want that for her. She could end up like me, covered in scars from cuts she made herself, married to an emotionally amd physically abusive man because she didnt see the signs before she married him because a loved one acting that way was normal growing up, and suicidal with a couple attempts in her past. Whatever you decide for your marriage should always come second to keeping your daughter in a physically and emotionally safe home, because you are the only one who CAN protect her and NO ONE ELSE WILL. she depends completely on you, dont let him screw her up!!! Eand dont stay with a man that treats YOU like that either! If anyone is being used its you! Hes the one that got to come live her because he married you. You were fine without his money before and you can be fine without it again so tell him that and show him the door next time he starts putting you down!

You are wrong. You both need to get full-time jobs and stop living off the tax payers. There is no excuse for you to make public assistance a way of life.

Hi

You have married a moron, to have, a child takes more than one and the responsibility is not on one partner, it sounds like this moron is trying to find any excuse to end the relationship, and bail out,

You are wrong....let him get a job with more hours....stay a lazy witch if you want to but dont steal my taxes if your man could work....

I don't6 know the laws in your country, but ours is clear. Marriage is automatic citizenship here. Check in your area.

try to be patience my dear, and let him do what he wants it's his responsibility, try to make him understand that none had force him on marring you, it's his choice and he do not have to put all on you. try to be respectful to him, this is marriage good and bad times across all the tome, try to bear it, but try to make him stop pouting it all on you, none forced him on it in the first place.

peace.