I am 14 and pregnant. Please help please :'c?

You're pregnant with a pedophile's baby. Can't get an abortion, can't tell your mom.

There's not much you can do. No one's gonna be able to help you.

You're screwed.

You made a mistake, everyone makes them so everyone who commented before has absolutely no reason to make what you did sound like the worst thing that they've ever heard. No one is perfect and those who say they're perfect are either dilusional or liars.

You have a couple options, there's the obvious...abortion. Unfortionaly whoever said it was correct, you can't have an abortion at 14 without a parent's consent. It's illegal.

You could go for adoption. Yes your parents will find out and yes everyone will see you differently. No one and I mean no one can make you tell who the father is. Adoption will probably be the hardest and smartest decision.

Then there's the last option. You can keep the baby. Yep, you'll have to tell your parents your pregnant. Yep, they'll want you to tell them who the daddy is. But no, you don't have to tell them. No one can force you to tell them anything.

So think, what you really want to do.

Well this is a mess. There really isn't anything you can do but tell her. I mean, I'm pretty sure at 14 you're too young to have an abortion without parental consent anyway. So you there's really no way around it.

I edit my answer, I just saw a whole list of quite crazy questions you have asked in the past. Also a year ago you claimed you were 14 and raped. So I don't think you were raped and I don't think you are pregnant.

Unfortuantely, you do not have many options in this situation. You would either have to get the 28 year old to cover the expense of an abortion, or he will have to face jail time (if your mother insists on pressing charges). Since you are a minor, at the tender age of 14, you must have parental consent to seek an abortion, even through a clinic. I hope everything turns out ok and you two make smarter choices in the future! xxx

If your mother is a fair person, she probably will not press charges against your boyfriend. She may even let you both get married. However, I hope this young man has a lot of money. Because if your mother does let him marry you, you both still may have to live in one of those Third World countries that has no extradition treaty with the United States of America for "statutory rape." At least until the father of your baby can get a lawyer to get him amnesty so that you can both return to the United States of America without the threat of prosecution against your baby's father.

Dont have an abortion! Tell your mum asap that you are pregnant maybe for now tell her you slept with a lad your age or 15 years of age, then half way into your pregnancy tell her its a 28 year old guy you slept with then hopefully this will avoid her being so mad at the start of your pregnancy? Since she might be very upset and mad with you as it is, with me saying that tho I do strongly advise you to tell her your pregnant and tell her its a 28 year old man you slept with straight away, upfront no messing about....But man I do hate to say this and upset you but your 14 and his 28! That is illegal and it could be classed as statutory rape (don't believe me?! Read about statutory rape!!) Don't let this guy who prob claims to love you and all this lot use your body as a piece of meat!! Man he should know way better, his an adult!! Your just a child....Good luck and tell your mum ASAP!! I hope things work out and if that 28 year old guy you slept with gets done and maybe sent down then GOOD he does deserve it....what if his trying to shag children younger than you!? He is a pedophile!!

You can't, by law, have an abortion at the age of 14 without parental consent or notification. There is no way around her finding out. You could have the baby and give it up for adoption, but your mom would obviously notice you were pregnant.

Keep the baby! It will change your life, it will make it hard, but it will be 100% worth it, I guarantee you of that :) As for telling your mom, don't lie to her--tell her you were raped! If you're a minor and he's an adult, it legally is rape. A huuuge thing about that just went down in my state when a teacher had a baby with her student... But if you tell her that you were raped, she's be a lot more understanding. And if she asks by who, you can just tell a white lie and say that you're not exactly sure... Raise your baby, love your baby, and get off easily with your mom. It should work sweetie. :) Hope everything works out!

Make up a story of a guy u slept with and he moved or something. She may even pay for the abortion make up a sob story. Im not for abortion but im not for kids raising babies either. Just plz be protected next time. Good luck

You can have an abortion free of charge on the NHS. But next time you have sex, or next time you willingly allow statutory rape happen to yourself (that's how everyone else will see it) then wear protection so that you don't have to kill your poor innocent baby! Abortion is not a form of contraception. Deal with the consequences