Tell me, Am I cheating?

Only you can decide what's acceptable for you. On the other hand your bf and your ex may be confused by your behavior. Maybe that's a problem for you, and maybe it isn't. If you are trying to make your bf jealous I personally wouldn't accept that in myself but I'm not you. Since your bf hangs out with other girls I'd take that as a sign that he doesn't want to commit. I'd find others to hang with myself because it naturally fills a need for me, but not as a set up to get my bf more interested in me. If he wants to go with others then he should go. Your ex may think that you are hanging with him to impress your bf which could impact the friendship.

Its always platonic till you get drunk and cheat.... I've seen it before

Hanging out with opposite sex is one thing, but to hang out with a ex is a whole different story. You seem to want us (yahoo community) to believe he's the one screwing up when you probably messed up too (Hanging out with ex for example) if you don't love him just completely end it

You have to be in a relationship or least serious relationship to be cheating. I would say you don't have a boyfriend. You have 2 friends that are boys.

I think it's fine but

You and your

Bf should talk to

Set the

Boundaries.

No you are not cheating. Just because you are spending time with a friend which happens to be your ex doesn't mean you ate cheating.