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Talking to a guy who has a girlfriend, but I just want to be friends?

So there's this guy at my school. He's EXTREMELY attractive. He's one of the most popular guys at our school; he plays golf, is in AP classes, and every girl I know finds him attractive.

We're both seniors and we have the freshman lunch so we all sit at the only senior table in lunch. I didn't really know him that well until Friday night when he was in my group of friends when we went out. I ended up making him laugh a lot and we all had a great time. I, of course, started getting feelings for him.

The thing is, he's dating this girl and I wouldn't ever want to mess up their relationship, but I would like to become closer friends. I've texted him twice so far, with questions about our English class and today, we continued the conversation past school work. We talked about golf and college and some other stuff. I want to talk to him more but our English class ends on Wednesday and we don't have any other classes together. What can I text him about to start a conversation? I don't want to seem clingy or like I'm trying to come on to him but he's fun to talk to.

Also, idk if he was just being nice but when we all stood up to leave when we were out on Friday. The two other guys my friend and I were with, stood up and walked away and he stood up to let us pass. I was behind my friend and he walked behind me. I got the feeling like he was checking my butt out but I mean, I can't be positive.

So anyways, what can I use as an excuse to text him again?

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  • 4 years ago

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  • 8 years ago

    Just be normal and be yourself...but I'm sorry I just have to tell u the truth about talking to someone who is in a relationship. I myself have never wanted someone who was already with another person but I've witnessed my friends messing around with married men or men who are in a committed relationship. Every single time they did that it always ended badly for them. One of my friends started dating a guy who had a female living with him and when he started dating my friend he kicked the girl out then moved my friend in with him immediately. They got into a relationship and my friend started dealing with 3 different women popping up at his home all the time...him talking to other women on his cell phone...him giving her stds's...then she got pregnant and they broke up before she had the baby. He now lives with the girl he broke up with her for and me friend is stuck with his baby which is my godson and she's raising him while he trying to have another child with his ex. I told her from the beginning that what goes around comes around. Maybe not immediately but karma will catch up to sooner or later.

    Source(s): life
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Trust me, idc what bs people on here will tell, you cant be friends with oppisite sex, without at least one person liking the other. All those little cute "best friends" are bs, either the guy or the want to **** one another.

  • 8 years ago

    Just text him and be like hi and ask him what's up and start talking about something u both like

    Source(s): Always worked for me and guys don't mind girls hitting on them
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    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Why don't you just text him and say hello? talk to him and tell him that you're bired and have nothing going on so you wanted to see what he was doing because everyone else is busy. Just text him and say whatever you want to say

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