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Rebz
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Rebz asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 8 years ago

What can I do about the neighbour's kids climbing over the garden all the time?

We are sick to death of the children TRYING to play football next door and they keep kicking their ball over to our garden and then climbing over to get it.

My partner and I are a young couple and we notice that the kids climb over to get the ball and then look into the house. We are a passionate and spontaneous couple so, you would think that we have privacy but it seems we do not because the brats in the neighbourhood think they are within their jurisdiction to come onto our property.

Their mother has told them not to climb over to our garden, but today, the eldest kid picked up the youngest one and put him into our garden.

They have been doing this for the past year... since they have lived here. I am really sick of it now. We have a large dog and I know that if the dog went for them, the dog would be destroyed! Surely, the kids are coming over at their own risk.

What can I do to stop them climbing over all the time? The fence we have is a picket fence and the kids are damaging it too. We are thinking of erecting a larger one but I do not want to pay for it.

Today, I was so sick of it, I started shouting and ranting.

The dog was not listening to me and wanted to be around the kids. I then started throwing things in anger and later, the children went into their house.

I am beyond frustrated with this all now.

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  • 8 years ago
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    Put up some barbed wire.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    First of all stop your own kids. A full week of being confined with no tv or computer should do it. If your kids don't climb the neighbors kids may not either. Second, talk to the neighbors Mom and have her agree that her kids are not allowed on your wall. If they are call the police, for trespassing. 3. Put spikes on top of the wall, this will make for uneven footing. However, as I'm sure your aware, the kids can fall and get hurt and guess who is going to have to pick up the bill.

  • 8 years ago

    You are adult and they are children. The sensible thing to do would be to be friends with the neighbours. Talk with the parents - no yelling - tell them your worries about the dog possibly nipping the children. Then offer to, and if accepted, put a gate in the fence so the children can get their ball without breaking the fence. Regarding your right to privacy if you explain to your neighbour that you are passionate and spontaneous but if the children intrude they may see what they ought not to.

    Having done this remember the children are children and do not really mean to be nasty they just think my ball is in next door's garden I will get it. Be nice to them and they will respect you

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Since its your garden; I think you should get the police involved because technically they're trespassing. You can have a cop or two turn up and let them have a word with the kids. Also you should tell the officers that its for their safety anyway as you have a dog and you don't want to put your dog down for attacking the children when it's their fault for going into the garden. If their mum turns up and gets mad at you for reporting her kids then just tell her she had her chance to control them.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I'm sure this may have come to your mind, but how about telling their mother about how you feel. If she is kind then explain and she should do something about it, maybe even tell them to fix your fence (if you are lucky!). If she does nothing then maybe consider going to the police. Yes it may seem a little extreme, but, its actually a mild form of breaking and entering. If you think about it, they are breaking into your garden then looking into your house which is disrupting your privacy. Obviously don't ask them to arrest the kids, but you could get them to go to their house and sit the children down and talk to them...

  • Yeh , I agree with other answers. Either keep or pop their ball, but also put some sticky stuff along the top of the fence. Something messy.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Paint some sticky tar like substance on the top of the fence.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You will have to erect a bigger fence or put up with the intrusion.

  • 8 years ago

    When the ball lands into your garden take it and pop it,

  • 8 years ago

    barbed wire fencing !!

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