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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 8 years ago

My friends creep me out, seriously?

I know my friends are just joking, but then it makes me ask myself if they really are joking. I'm the only girl in a group of about 10 guys. They can be super sweet, supportive, caring, & protective. It's kinda like their attitude is, nobody hurts Gabby, but one of us. They'd all take the clothes off their backs for me, they did it before & are there when I really need them, but they are guys. Trying to back me into walls, corners, pencils (long story), sticks (another long story), etc. They make tons of sex jokes & often bring friends with benefits up in conversation. Anyway, there are a couple of them who get creepy, like today, J gave an incredibly acurate description of my room, but he's never been to my house. D lives near me & often jokes bout using his gun scopes to spy on me. They even knew my underwear size & what colors I had on today. (Don't ask.) I'm pretty open with them & even when I'm not there, they talk bout me a lot. They even try to figure out my future sex life. I'm 14 & this guys range from 13 to 15.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    Dont be creeped out. Guys will be guys. Guys tend to be a little more on the more vulgur side. Its alright

    Source(s): life
  • 8 years ago

    um..... YIKES!!!!! Sorry to have to tell you, but most of these are not real "friends" at all.. just guys who want to eventually have sex with you. Yes they will act sweet with you and protect you and all that, but it seems that they are not doing this out of TRUE friendship (which means that you want what is best for the other person... and will try your best to make their life a better place to be, no matter what), but because they want to win your romantic affections. The one with the telescope who spies on you is called a "stalker", and although he's not yet the really dangerous kind of stalker, he is NOT someone you wish to encourage at all.

    I'd say just start making some new friends, and weed out (ie, discourage and avoid) the "friends" you have now, who are creeping you out. If you don't do this now, you could be in a world of trouble within a year or two, maybe even raped or gang-raped or other sexual things less drastic but still undesirable if you get into the wrong type of situation with a crowd such as you describe.

    Source(s): Been around... kept my eyes open.
  • 8 years ago

    If your Friends creep you out, make new friends!! Or ask them if they just play around wit you or being serious, it never hurts to ask questions!!! Good luck!

  • 8 years ago

    Get girl Freinds?

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