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Bad Luck with women or normal?
I can't seem to meet any girls. I have tried many things like online dating and that failed big time, mostly because women on those site never replied to me.
I would point out I'm not some 30 year old guy who lives in his parents basement who has nothing going on in his life.
I have a job and also go to school part time. I own a car too.
I have done some heavy traveling in my life. Last year alone I solo backpacked across Asia and Europe, and then spent some time living in China learning Chinese as a second language.
My point is I am not a bum.
My question is how do I meet girls? Many of the girls I seem to meet boyfriends.
Is it true that sometimes to meet someone you need to be in the right place at the right time?
What should I do next?
I don't have any Speech problems. My looks are maybe 7 out of 10.(being honest)
And no my job is not the best, but not it's not fast food place or retail job.
4 Answers
- ?Lv 48 years agoFavorite Answer
Don't you meet girls at school?
Online dating usually doesn't work, because any women that you would want to date already has an inbox full of options before you got there.
You like hiking, traveling and backpacking. Try finding a group on the Internet where people get together to pursue your hobbies (if it's a singles group, all the better). I met my current GF through "meetup.com".
Source(s): http://www.meetup.com/ - ?Lv 58 years ago
getting women is all about understanding your limitations and being ok with who you are. letting the chips fall where they may and not feeling like it's a big deal.
they like guys who are spontaneous rather than scripted in conversation. because guys who plan everything out have a tendency to be overly nice, fake, boring. you shouldn't be afraid of saying something wrong it's experience that will help you. and women like natural attraction. if it's a setup blind date and such it's very likely that relationship won't work. compared to the natural relationships that are spawned from long lasting friendships.
Chinese women are very good partners. if i was you i'd go back there so i'd be around them
- ???????????Lv 68 years ago
I'm not trying to bring you down but I've seen alot of people who seem like a great catch and they just cant find anyone. I think mother nature wants some of us to die alone. Maybe something is wrong with your genes and on primal level women can sense it. I dont know.
- 8 years ago
Are you handsome?
Are you funny in "opening lines"
Is your job a good one?
Do you have social anxiety?
Do you have speech impairments or any minor dysfunctions?
Where do you search?
Re post the question with these answered and we can help you. Really the above means ALOT.