When it comes to relationships, why do people (esp. guys) wanna go so fast?

i know exactly what you mean....ugh i don't know why they go so fast.....

but its all drama.... ppl now a days have more lust than love.... especially when it comes to guys, they are always desperate for romance..... they actuallly dont knw whether they are in love or just attracted to girl.... all they need is romance..... romance....

having someone to love you and respect you is the best thing in the world and a lot better than just playing all the dramas to get what they want all the time......

I'm a guy and I agree with you completely. I value love far more than I do lust. Do things together as friends, then work on a romantic relationship. Do you enjoy the same foods, hobbies, concerts, music and theater? It takes time and effort to find out if you are compatible or not. Personally, I like the wonderment and anticipation of a possible romantic relationship.

Hmm that's a good question sometimes i notice i go a little too fast when i find a girl that likes me because I'm desperate because 98% of the women I talk to either 1 ignore me 2 don't want to talk to me for what ever reason....so that's just my 2 cents I figure it's like that with guys because there the ones that's mostly rejected and they may not want to be rejected again so the speed up the process in fear of the girl getting uninterested....

Beginning of love means infatuation and lust especially for guys and they manuplate girls too and so the start is quick. Its not love but only desire to fulfill physcical need. It won't take much time to breeak off. In many cases girls are also very fast in this matter and ultimate result is avoiding each other at the earliest. I don't know you agree or not but I feel there is nothing lik love. if it is, then we can call it lust ,infatuation, attraction just for having *** and there after to find out some one else and first love go to deep ditch. Thank you.

Because majority of relationships start with lust and sexual attraction which is completely natural.

how many people out there will go and cheat if their partner isn't giving enough sex? many.. goes to show what the relationship was built on ;) some people need sex to feel close to something, some people got the void!

It doesn't make sense to me either. I don't understand why people don't get to know each other better because going too fast just leads to break up. When people find someone they like they want to get with that person as soon as possible to claim they have a partner. But as fast as they were able to say they have a partner they lose them! I wish people would take the time but unfortuanately they don't :/

Unfortunately Rebel said it best

I'm a guy but I must admit guys want sex more often than a relationship

Ikr gal ... but you are right that its mostly guys who always wanna rush .. even I don't understand why tho ...

Also I think for a better and stable relationship .. you first gotta be friends .. :)

its because the electronic age has made everything fast. guys want to get started on a relationship. girls want to have one that will last. for us guys, we know that most relationshps are short term anyways, we want to get into it quickly then see how it goes.

by start a relationship you mean to f@#k right?

well, some people are only interested in sex and nothing else.