My boyfriend says he is breaking up with me for being disrespectful l said how he said figure it out?

Well, if someone has to be told the answer it means they don't understand the problem.

Nobody learns anything if they are just given the answer. I would suggest you reflect on how you treat him and what you expect of him and then try and think is it is reasonable.

Today, young women have been brought up to believe they are perfect and that all men should accept them as they are. Which translates to putting up with their bullshit without complaint. Women also think that the amount of **** their man will put up with is a measure of how much they care, and in some cases actually set out to test how far they can go.

Nothing could be further from the truth. People only put up with stuff they don't care enough about to try and change.

Think. Try and put yourself in his shoes.

Good luck.

Let it go.

Let him go.

When people say this - it means they have no real reason for breaking up. So they put it all on the other person.

By saying "figuring it out" that makes you feel guilty for something you have no idea what....

And makes it easier for him to leave.

I'd keep on asking him. Obviously you've done something to upset him, but you can't do anything about it when you don't know what the issue is. He's probably just mad and wants you to know what you did wrong.

short and sweet depending on your age he's after benefits if you don't understand this then you should not be going out with boys you can' reply if people don't know your age you could be let's 12 14 16 18+ then you know what your dealing with get my drift its really called growing up

I suggest you end the relationship and move on. He is not worth your time or effort.

Wrong section.

This is MARRIAGE and DIVORCE.