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Im a boy whos been bullied since elementary school?

I have gone to school with this girl Elle since the third grard. She has always been one of the popular girls since I can remember. In elementary school she would get bigger boys that liked her to punch me and beat me up. I guess she liked the power or something. But since middle school I don't really get physically beat up anymore but she keeps me as like a servant. I am a junior in high school now and am expected to drive her to and from school when her boyfriend cant pick her up. She gave me her locker combo and makes me get her books for all classes were in together. This last year I am not even allowed to say her name without calling her Miss Elle. We have study hall every other day and I have to file her nails while she talks with her friends. It is very embarrassing but the worst part is ive almost become uses to and just accept it now. When I do make mistakes or forget to do something she tells me I am usually slapped or yelled at in front of her friends. I don't know why she chose me maybe because im small or shy but I feel like she has full control of me and I cant even explain why

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I'm sorry everyone else is being so mean and unsympathetic about your situation. I am guessing that you tried in the past more than once to break away from her, and it didn't go well? I imagine she made your life miserable until you went back to being her servant. It is almost the end of the school year. You should have a talk with your guidance counselor, make sure that next year you have no classes scheduled with her, if switching schools altogether is not an option. Maybe you can even arrange to take some college classes early, to be away from the school more. Also, this has been going on so long for you, I think you may need some therapy to learn how to have healthy relationships.

    Email or IM me if you need a friendly ear.

  • Jason
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    Why are you listening to her.

    Are you afraid of her big boyfriend coming to beat you?

    I know that since you were always beat since you were little, it is hard to stand up for yourself but you need to.

    Are you always going to let bigger smarter better people rule your life?

    Hopefully not.

    I was always beat by other kids too.

    My mom would always ask why I didn't do anything about it.

    I never told a single teacher, or a official.

    Again, why are you doing this for her.

    Just stop, if she threatens you with he boyfriend just say fine and walk away.

    Do not try to use anything like knives or guns.

    If you aren't strong enough to stop them.

    Do what I used to do.

    Just take it.

    Let them beat the **** out of you until you bleed and you can't feel your arms.

    Then stand up and walk away.

    They might come back, just let them do what they want and walk away.

    You as a human being should not be a slave to other people.

    Gain some confidence. Find some genuine people who you trust.

    And don't even look at that *****

    Sorry for ranting, have tome confidence,

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Once again, you are a wimp and a sissy. Like I had said yesterday in the same question that you asked, it is your fault for allowing her to abuse you and take advantage of you. Your parents would probably beat you if they fins out that a girl is all over you and you are doing nothing about it.

    One more time, a boy that gets bullied by a girl and does not defend himself from her is a big punk.

    By doing that, you are showing the girl and demonstrating to her that you are being a coward.

    She is not your friend, she is just making a fool out of you and making you look like a fool in front of everyone. The reason she bosses you around and bullies you is because she knows that you will do everything she tells you to do, and she knows that she can get to you. She is looking at you like a punk and she will definitely tell everyone. You will be the laughing stock of the group and probably of the school too.

  • 8 years ago

    You have a choice in the matter too kid. She tells you to do something, you make the choice to do it. Not her. You. Understand that you are becoming an adult, and the entire world is harder than any day of high school could ever be. You drive so, 16 at the youngest? You have less than 730 days to accept the reality you created or change it.

    Source(s): Having lived more years than you.
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  • 8 years ago

    Grow a spine!!!! Don't let her treat like a dog!! You have to learn to stand up for yourself!! Whenever some idiot is a jerk to me I don't just stand there and take it and neither should you! You are a young man! It's time you start standing taking of yourself! I'm sorry that was harsh but sometimes harshness is what is needed to get the message across.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    It sounds like your her *****. Don't talk to her anymore, just ignore her if you want her to stop.

  • 8 years ago

    D F you are doing man...start ignoring her...and man up...

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You got a fist for a reason!!!

  • 8 years ago

    *Grade *Can't *I've *Used.

    Well maybe your her b**ch and should grow a pair and beat her ***. that's the way stuff gets done

    Source(s): muslims
  • 8 years ago

    simple, grow a pair and man up.

    Source(s): don't be anyones bitch.
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