Is this considered inconsiderate?

Why would it be inconsiderate? You get a wedding DAY. Not a wedding week, not a wedding month, not a wedding year.

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I don't think it is inconsiderate. Just because you are getting married doesn't mean the world stops right? Everyone else has lives outside of the wedding.

You seem like you understand this which is good. Problem is when people are planing a wedding they ( and their parents) get consumed in it. To them nothing exists outside of the wedding. You have to get reality checks every now and then. Just because you and your fiance and your parents are living in a "wedding bubble" doesn't mean everyone is.

My Maid of Honor is having her daughters first birthday party 2 days BEFORE my wedding, which meant I had to change "bacholerette party" plans because that was the day I intended to do it. *Shrug* No big deal. I just roll with it.

one way to look at it is that people are free to do whatever they like. Why should an entire week or even a weekend revolve around your ONE day ya know?

What's inconsiderate here is that you apparently think you own the weekend of both your shower and your wedding.

Do you seriously expect people to put their lives on hold just because you're planning a couple of parties? Really? WOW. Entitled, much?

People can do whatever they want. The world doesn't stop just because you happen to be getting married.

If you're invited to these parties and you don't want to attend, then decline the invitations. If you want to go, then go. Period, end of story. That's the limit of your concern.

Whether or not other people attend is NONE of your concern. There is absolutely NO reason why someone cannot attend both your wedding and a party that's being held two days later, or your shower and then a barbecue the next day.

The fact that you're concerned about this is utterly ridiculous. Stop being an attention hog. You get ONE DAY. That's it.

No it's not inconsiderate ! You really just sound like an arrogant b*tch to be honest, like other people have said you don't own the week/weekends . If your friends really wanted to they could have the party ON your wedding but they're having it on Sunday which is 2 days after your wedding, same with your fiances mother she could have her BBQ when you're out partying with your friends but no she is going to have it the day after. You seriously need to take your head out of your a**

Not inconsiderate at all. By Sunday your wedding will be over. Heck, by Saturday your wedding will be over. What does one have to do with the other.

Same with the bridal shower. It doesn't last a weekend, it's 2 or 3 hours on a Saturday. If she wanted to have a BBQ Saturday night, she could.

You wedding and pre-wedding events don't cancel all other social functions.

Serious? No, not at all. Your wedding day is Friday. What anyone does Saturday or Sunday is on their weekend, not yours. Inconsiderate would be planning a BBQ or party on Friday ! Aren't you going to be on your honeymoon anyway?

I don't understand what's inconsiderate about having a party two days after your wedding. You don't own the weekend just because you get married, do you? Also, what's bad about a BBQ the day after your bridal shower? I wish you could explain why this is bothering you, if you're too tired to go then people will totally understand.

Huh???? I don't get it. You are getting married on a Friday...your friends are having a party 2 days later. What is the problem with that? They are allowed to have a party aren't they? And your future mother-in-law is having a BBQ the day after your shower....again...what's the problem with that?

I really don't see why you have a problem. Your bridal shower and wedding and the other parties are all separate events. Everyone has there lives to lead.

your friends can throw as many parties as they like around your wedding, no one said you have to attend. they probably thought it would be a good weekend to choose as everyone will already be gathered for your wedding.

by sunday surely you will be either on you honeymoon or enjoying your second day of married life with your new husband. what did you expect everyone else to be doing?

definitely not inconsiderate at all.