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Why would a woman not consider her husband's same s3x relations cheating?
Yet again another episode of "I'm married to a ...."
One of the couples was a woman married to a man who does "gay for pay." He was a bodybuilder and married her. Then he had some sort of offer to pose nude which turned into offers for porn which he and his wife discussed. He apparently did some movies with women. His wife preferred that he have sex with men for money since it didn't feel like "cheating" as he wasn't spending his effort to please another woman. He also did solo webcam work as well.
I just don't understand how she could self-justify him having paid sex with men as being acceptable yet not with women. I only watched part of the episode, but in some later scene when she was on camera herself, she seemed to be sad/crying. I'd guess she doesn't like any of his "job."
13 Answers
- ThomasLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
There's no way of knowing for sure why she thought it was okay for him to have relations with other men, but not women. She probably thought he wouldn't start having feelings for another man if he went this way in the adult film industry, which is apparently really common in homosexual adult films. Many of the "stars" are allegedly straight in real life with wives and kids at home. Maybe she had knowledge that he would make more money in gay films compared to the straight ones(as this is allegedly true).
- 8 years ago
interesting question - but I think the opposite case is way more common: Guy not feeling threatened by his gf kissing and having sex with chicks. Personally, like most men I think it's really sexy if a hot girls kisses another girl....but that's about it - if my longterm gf wants to have sex with a girl - then it will be about as bad as cheating...and there's nothing sexy about it.
I also know some women are turned on by guys having sex - while their % is like 20%....so not the majority. The majority want all penises for them lol....
- 5 years ago
I bet she had a bigger partner than him, and they probably was bff. and her she was just handling bussibess, and doing for her. She let him know which much she didn't feel him cause she had way better. He cared for her so much to we're hed rather sleep with man than have another women erase her from him. he cared about her.t he men was covering her damage.
- fununtilitsoverLv 78 years ago
When a network comes to you and offers a substantial chunk of money to play along with a script that has been written for you ... you pretend. And then people like you watch and believe, and this perpetuates the ridiculous of reality / BS television shows.
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- ???????????Lv 68 years ago
She's not in love. True love is when you want a person so much even the idea of wearing their skin sounds appealing. You want them all for yourself and only for yourself and if it was possible to lock them away forever just for you with no consequences involved you just might do it. It's love! <3
- ms.sophisticateLv 78 years ago
Well, to be able to understand her logic in this particular situation; you would have to forget your education, life experience and analytical skills all together. Pretend that you are a complete moron and quite proud of that pathetic fact. Now, I am sure her conclusions just might make perfect sense to you.
- Anonymous8 years ago
Keep in mind that your views of sex, marriage and fidelity are not the same as others. Many people are more liberal in their views than the orthodox views taught in most religions. Live and let live.
- ?Lv 68 years ago
There's no attachment to the men. But she knows about this, it's not really cheating. No betrayal is afoot!
- Michael CorleoneLv 78 years ago
i seen that for a little bit. I don't know, most women i know wont put up with gay porn or a man being gay period. so with that said, there are SOME women who wouldn't mind if they were in love and he had a steady income.