My boyfriend won't stop talking to the girl he cheated on me with?

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im gonna try to make this as short as possible but me and my boyfriend started dating in sept and moved in together with his mom in miami. we fell in love and were together all the time and did everything together. but then in feb i got pregnant and i got an abortion and ever since then we fell apart. (after we got it he told me that he wanted to keep it..so did i but he kept telling me he didnt want it??) he started texting his moms friends daughter sam. they would text all the time but he would swear their just friends. we started fighting all the time but it was only about her. he wanted to take a break for a week so i went to orlando where my family is and stuff and then i was suppose to come back with him but then he put me off for a week our 1 week break turned into a 2 1/2 week break and the day i came back he told me he cheated on me with sam and that he got drunk and kissed her and fingered her and when i came to get my stuff from our house all of her stuff was there and she actually had been living there for a week but he swore they were just friends and after he kissed her he didnt see her like that anymore. but i left and he kept stringing me along saying he wants me back and i stayed with him cus i loved him and he swore he was cutting sam off. then i went on her fb and they had a pic together smiling as her profile pic and then he came clean and said they've been hanging out but shes gone for the summer in nj with her family and wont be back till aug or sept. but he had me come back this weekend and hes still talking to her. he tells me to stop talking to my bestfriend (he doesnt like her) and he'll stop talking to Sam but its different?? he cheated on me with her and he wont stop and it hurts my feelings so bad it doesnt make me feel special. hes saying how its annoying and that im clingy about it cus im always saying how it hurts my feelings. what should i do?? i know i should leave him but its so hard cus im so attached to him cus of the abortion and that weve been living together sinced sept. what do u guys think about all this what should i do? im having a hard time leaving him cus i dont want him to be with someone else..idk :(

? · Answer

Why are you still with him? He's cheated on you, it means he doesn't appreciate you enough to be committed to you. Doesn't matter how he sugar coated it, there's a reason why he cheated on you in the first place You deserve someone who can appreciate you enough that no other girl can take your place. Not that loser. Stuff happens, you have to let go of the past. What's important now is not your abortion you had, that is the past now. What's important is your future. Do you want to ruin your future because of your past? You have so much more ahead of you, you just need to find the courage to let go of the past, and you'll move on. Remember, you can;t change what's happened. Staying with him will only make more regrets for you. It has to stop here.

marianlaughs · Answer

I don't understand the problem, he is using you when Sam's not around, he lied to you about having the baby then made you feel bad after you had the abortion.  He sounds like an idiot and he's keeping you around until Good old Sam comes back from NJ.  Move on, let him finger her all he wants, get a real guy who's mature and doesn't live with his Mom BTW.

Lady In Red · Answer

Gotta go!!! He has no respect for you. Give yourself that respect, and get out of there!! You feel like life is ending but you'll find someone else sooner than later, specially because you're young. Don't ever let any other man step on you again. Be brave, and no matter what keep on praying!! He's not going to change.

Liz · Answer

He won't stop talking to her because he knows he doesn't have to.  He cheated on you and you stayed with him.  He knows you're a doormat and he's treating you like one.  He doesn't care about your feelings, otherwise he wouldn't have cheated in the first place.  Why do you waste your time?

Harry · Answer

Regardless of what that inconsiderate starfish priv says..You know they are not just talking and he did more than finger her. 

You can use my sexy body to get back at him if you want. Ho can you resist my buff body and two hole inches of pure love rod?

Just dont tail my wife or gf. They are insanely gelus

Harold Feller · Answer

14 year olds should not be allowed to date, much less get an abortion.

I don't care what  that inconsiderate star fish priv says.

William · Answer

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philosopher_adviser · Answer

Get rid of him now! He got what he wanted from you,(sex), but he is not man enough to face his responsibilities. He is just trying to score with as many girls as he can.

IndianaJohn · Answer

then make him an ex bf

Amanda · Answer

HE IS USING YOU SO BAD. Omg, please leave him. Please. PLEASE. That is ridiculous. There's no baby involved, get OUT. What a jerk.

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