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Why do I do this? What is the right thing to do?

Why do I feel like I should bend over backwards so a girl doesn't get her feelings hurt. Yet she doesn't give a **** about my feelings.. And when she does something that hurts, I'm still nice back. I don't wanna cuss her out because that solves nothing.. But I feel bad about being nice because she doesn't deserve it. Yet I don't wanna become an asshole like a lot of girls say guys are.

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  • 8 years ago
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    It sounds to me like your heart is in the right place.

    Probably the best thing to do is find another girl. You aren't going to change this one!

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