Boyfriend watches porn, I watch porn? (Read please)?

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So after being in a relationship for almost 4 years together we both admitted to watching porn. He said he didn't want to tell me because he was afraid I would leave him, but he found out I was actually watching it myself. We both agreed it was just a kick starter for us to masturbate but we both wished it was each other.

I can't help but feel awkward and think of him differently. I know it's hypocritical but I can't help my feelings. I feel jealous but he said I am prettier and better than them, it's just he needs something to get him going. I offered him I would strip tease on Facetime and he accepted, so maybe that would help?

We are both trying to quit, but why do I feel this way?

? · Accepted Answer

Watching porn is normal in a relationship... Me and my ex used to do it all the time. We didn't have any issues with it. I suggest you two watch it together and maybe get a few ideas ;) But if you two wanna quit, then sit down and have a discussion about it. It's a pretty simple fix, don't worry too much about it.

Anonymous · Answer

there nothing wrong with watching porn but sometimes a woman needs to step up her game and be more aggressive in the bed room be a boss and do whatever you need to , to keep him interested

Corina · Answer

you cant have both, so make a bridge and get over it 
me and my fiance watch porn together, or by our selves .. neither of us care

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