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am i still in love with my boyfriend?

i've been with him 3 years and he's still him, he hasnt changed at all but now everytime i look at him im not sure its the same anymore, he doesnt make me laugh as much and all i can think about is my ex from 4 years ago but he is in a happy relationship and i dont want to ruin it. i dont know whether to stay with my current boyfriend or ditch him. do all couple have this stage where you dout you want to spend the rest of your life with them?

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  • 8 years ago
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    No lust and sexual attraction doesn't last forever in any relationship.

    That's where a lot of people go wrong, they expect that to be the case and walk away when it's gone. That's what starts a relationship off and the rest of it is based on an agreement and soul friendship.

    If you're questioning being with him, then maybe you're not ready for a proper relationship yet, but remember it's normal not to feel the same as you did at the beginning doesn't mean it's time to walk away. :)

  • 8 years ago

    Just had a look at some of your older questions. I notice that you failed to mention your child?

    Do you really think that the best thing for them is for you to be sleeping around?

    Sounds like you seriously need to get your priorities right. If you're not happy being with your guy then leave him. simple as.

  • 8 years ago

    If it lasts for more than a month, you need to breakup with him. 3 years is a long time, and you need to be ABSOLUTELY sure that this is what you want.

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