HEY! Help me! This guy is confusing!?

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Hi! I'm confused if a guy just all of a sudden stopped liking me. We've had a thing for over a month, he asked me to prom and we've hung out a few times and texted a lot. The last time we hung out he put his arm around me ( he's really shy so it's a big deal he would take that step I could tell he was nervous). 

I really like him and he gets my humor. Before we used to both initiate conversation pretty equally but he hasn't texted me at all since our last hangout ( it's been like a week). I'm just confused because I thought things were going good. 

In my last relationship, the guy just stopped texting me and any plans to hang out he just never showed. I ended it cause I got fed up with it, I guess to not text me or communicate was his way of breaking up without actually doing it. It kinda left me heartbroken, which is why I'm insecure about him not initiating anything. Should I keep stay with this guy and keep trying or let it go?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think he likes you but hes maybe trying to think about his feelings before getting anything started this honestly has happened to me exactly and I hope things go well for you. Talk to him in person or hang out and don't keep worrying about txting. How do you think people back then communicated. You have to try and talk to him more or he will be uninterested and give up but I think its just because hes really shy and doesn't know how to act around you or he thinks you might not like him but all you should do is show that you like him and he'll try harder so good luck with him

? · Answer

I think instead of texting. Actually talk to him. He sounds shy,  but it sounds he has enough manners and courage to not leave an actual. Conversation. Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

Let it go, if the guy was interested he'd come looking for you. You should never have to beg for a guys attention, it should be the other way around.

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