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Is this preference or something else?

SO here's the story.. There's this girl I talk to she's white and we're friends.. So sometime ago she did this thing with a rate /date thing.. And I put my name in and she rated me a seven and pass.. So I said I guess Black guys aren't your preference.. And she said I'm better friends with them.. So We end up asking how each other was doing and I say good until somebody said I look like Lupe Fiasco.. And she say's Ohp , well the only Black guy I like is Tyga Unff He is sexy.. I was fine with that.. Then a few weeks later we're still talking and I asked her what was doing and she said listening to my baby Jason Derulo.. A black R& B artist.. I asked wasn't Tyga the only black guy you liked.. And she says him and Jason Derulo.. And she insisted those were the only two.. Now then today she was talking with this other and he brought up Chris Brown.. And she says " OMG he's sexy, I would date him.. Now I'm wondering why would she lie about that.. What was the point..?

Update:

@Mista True.. But I mean she likes talking to me.. And she always says "JOSH I Missed you.. IDK.

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  • Zer0
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Man it seems like she just doesn't like you... I mean I can tell you really like her because you notice all these little things and what not - but she has no idea what she wants.

    But she never did say "I don't like black guys" she just said "I'm better friends with them", so it's not a 100% interpretation.

    Okay but why would she lie? I think because she feels like she would offend you if she was attracted to several black guys and she might not be to you. She is just confused.

    EDIT: Well man I obviously don't know about the background between you two. I mean she could like you, but you made it seem like she don't lol.

  • 8 years ago

    You're stuck in the friend zone dude. Only way to get out. Ignore her and do your own thing and then come back looking like a million bucks and doing good for yourself. Fickle women eat that up but guys eat fickle women up. It's the cycle of dating life.

    It's strange but people when they know you're into them keep you on the fence as a 'just in case' back up plan. Which sucks I imagine. So jump from those chains of oppression and make your path.

  • 8 years ago

    ...maybe she's just indecisive, and doesn't know what she likes. If she's young, that's probably the most likely answer.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    Lol

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