Is it wrong for a scorned wife to beat up the mistress?

Yes, it's wrong but I know how you feel. Just have her stand there and let you get it all out. Karmas a b*tch. She'll get what's coming to her in another way.

my ex's mistress deserved a beatdown for taking my husband, having sex in my bed, drinking from my wine glasses in my house and coaching my clueless husband on sneaking around, but I am grateful to her now. al the things i feared he would do someday, he did. If it were not for a greedy slut, i might have invested a lot more time into a marriage that could be broken at any time by any woman with the desire to take my husband. I had all the bad thoughts in my head of what i would do to them if i had the chance and those thoughts turned into nightmares. I had to let go and realize if he could turn to someone else so quickly, it was time for me to move out, on and away. don't let negativity consume you. Believe me, life full of negativity is no life at all and why should he move on and be happy while you are unhappy and consumed with negative thoughts. I can assure you, a woman that knows a man is married and goes for him anyway and in some cases doesn't stop until she takes him from the wife is someone who loves challenges. she has conquered him and she will leave him to move on to her next conquer. A woman who knowingly fools around with a married man is not a real woman and she will never have a man that truly loves her. she will have men going through things that need emotional or sexual affairs. they don't see anything in her but what they need at the time. and usually it fades and they realize the grass was not only not greener on the other side but it was full of weeds and parasites. don't get yourself into trouble over a whore and a cheater. good luck sweety

Well beating her up seem to be too easy for her. I would followed them throughly took picture of them of course with a proper view of her. Then I would investigate her family members and show them the picture. And she thinks that having good time with my husband doesn't have to pay just because she didn't make the vow? I'll let her family deal with her for the rest of her life, she'll be miserable with the observant of her own family.

Woman that involved with other people married knowing they are married normally needs a growing up to do, and that's the responsibility of her parents to guide her.

The husband and mistress r equally at fault and BOTH deserve whatever punishment the wife dishes out. Even if that punishment is death!

no she did NOT take the marriage vows

however i think in the future

the mistress should have to PAY the wife for breaking up a family

if more people had to pay for their crimes of cheating instead of just being divorced

i bet the cheating would go way down

but a beat down no

why would you want to go to jail for something like that

but again he took the vow he needs to pay for the crime

Drag her down a dark alley and beat the crap out of her but make sure the husband does not get away with it altogether ......... find some low life's and give them a couple of hundred for their services and point him out to them, then walk away and let them get on with breaking something

That is how you will feel, and I agree with you but believe it or not, its not worth the hassle just let the a$$ hole go his own way and get on with your life .......... find another man to love you, preferably, a guy who is less deceitful than your previous one .............. Best of Luck

My dear friend, fault lies with husband and not with the mistress so rein husband and not mistress. If you beat one mistress he will find another woman as mistress.

No why give her a beating ? She would be doing me a favour its about a persons character and if all she can get is leftovers in life that's sad.

There is more than one way to skin a cat!! Physical is against the law, but other ways might not be:)

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'It's perfectly appropriate as long as you record the beating and upload it on a website like theync.com or some other site.