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Why does my dad hate me so much?

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Okay so I found out that my mom was cheating on my dad with a man she fell in love with and sooner or later, she gave my dad everything and took me and left with the other man. I tried to speak to my dad but he told me in the meanest voice ever that I wasn't his daughter and that I'll never be his own. I was extremely hurt! I know it was wrong of me to hold it in, but it was none of my business.

Now he refuses to talk to me and he took away my money for college! My mom tried fighting that but when the judge saw why he did take it away, he ruled in favor of my father and gave it to my brothers instead :(

I'm so miserable! I tried everything to see my dad and even tried to move in with him, but I guess he's still angry at me for not telling him...... Is they anything I can do to win him back?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    First, I'm sorry to hear you're going through something like this. Your dad is probably devastated. It sounds like he doesn't know how to deal with his feelings of anger, betrayal and frustration. None of this is your fault. The adults in your life have made poor discussions that are now effecting you. Your dad needs to redirect his emotions to where they belong, not lash out at you.

    Bottom line is HE is behaving badly. Sometimes people need time. Hopefully he will seek help for his issues. And don't give up on college!

    Good luck.

    Source(s): Been there, done that.
  • 8 years ago

    he doesn't hate u he's just mad of your mom cheating and maybe he thinks that u agree on your mom's cheating cz you r living with her.i mean he may thought that u like that stranger or that u dnt want him u prefer to be with your mom and her boyfriend. just write him a letter and explain to him that u dnt like what your mom did and he will always be the only man that u will love and no one will take his place and he may not read it now but one day he will and he will be glad to hear that and he will call u and ask u to come visit him..i hope everything will be okay just keep showing him that u love him

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