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Going to the movies... Help?

So i asked a girl to go to a movie with me and she said yes. Ive never gone on a date before. I dont even know if shes really considering this an actual date, but i think she likes me. How should i act? I talk to her all the time and text her a lot, but now its gonna be different, what should i talk about before or after the movie? How to keep my cool during this all? Im kinda freaking out because i really like her and i dont want to mess it up

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You have to get back your cool. You have to practice your body language. Confidence is absolutely key. You don't have to talk really or worry about it if you are full of confidance. That is appealing to females. Be generous with goodies, popcorn, candy. Maybe hold her hand if you arent sweaty.

    Smile, be happy. Be yourself, but don't be timid.

  • 8 years ago

    The key is to be, basically, normal. She likes you because you're you, not some superhuman version of you. Getting a bit of exercise right before the date will help; not enough to make you all sweaty, but enough to get a few endorphins flowing, so you can smile and be your normal self. Then just talk about anything you like. Maybe about the movie a little bit, but not too much!

    Then when you get done, if you really liked the movie, it's okay to talk about that for a little while, then segue into other topics again, and end up talking about whatever. Remember, the objective is not just for her to have a good time, but for you to have a good time as well. if you're really stressed the whole time, then she'll probably notice and have less fun as a consequence as well.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Well she won't expect much if she's a good girl. Just ask her if she's ever seen the movie, what's her favorite movie, has she seen _____? What's her favorite candy? Did you know (insert movie related company here) was sued for ______? What's the last movie you've seen? What's you're favorite type of movie? Etc. But don't ask too many questions. When she answers, tell her your answer too. Just play it cool. Relax and don't tense up. Ask her if she wants to share popcorn or a soda or something. But if its your first date, don't ask if she wants to share soda. That would be creepy. And remember she's probably just as nervous as you!! You sound like a really nice guy if you're this worried about a date. I don't think she'd call it a date but I'm not completely sure. Girls all have different opinions. Hope it goes well!!!!

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    calm down. Take a few breaths. Breath in and out, nice big breaths. Take a shower, wash your hair. Make sure you smell nice. Wear deodorant, brush your teeth. (don't dress up too much but wear something clean.) Eat something small and light before you go. Bring breath mints. Just act the exact same as you do as her friend. DO NOT ACT ANY DIFFERENT. It might scare her off if you start acting strange. Act calm, and just engage in a conversation the same as you would normally. Don't think of it as a date. I know you want to, but if you get too excited and think of it as a date you might sabotage yourself. Joke with her a bit. After the movie, talk about the movie. If you like it tell her you do and why. The conversations about the plot of the movie, what you liked what you didn't should keep conversations going for a while at least. Prior to the movie make sure to compliment her on how she looks.

    Source(s): personal
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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Do not be awkward. Texting is so much easier because you don't have to actually say it to their face and see their reactions to it, but try to talk just like you text. Joke around about whats happening around you two, or bring up school (something you guys have in common) But if you're watching a movie together, then you don't have to talk as much so good choice. Make sure the date starts off with the movie first so you two can have something to talk about afterwords. ;) goodluck

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