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He refused to sign my yearbook (5 points)?

Today was the last day of 8th grade. For every other girl, my best friend wrote long, cute messages, and for me he just signed his name and refused to write me anything. I wouldn't care, except we are best friends and we tell each other everything. We talk for two hours on the phone everyday (at least), and hang out at lunch and every other class we have together. Also, we're in the same friend group and even have gone to the movies alone. Even though we're always mean to each other (joking), this actually hurt. Also, he always hugs his other girl-friends but doesn't ever offer to hug me... Does he not actually like me as a friend or?

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  • 8 years ago
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    He may not have written something in your yearbook because he didn't think it was necessary. Isn't the point of signing the yearbook a way of remembering that person and who they are? Well if you talk to him everyday I don't see how that is necessary because you don't need to go back to the yearbook to recall him, you can actually pick up the phone and talk to him!!! Maybe he's suggesting that by just writing his name is all you need to remember the good times you've had together and the long talks. About the hugging, I'd say he's unsure as to how you would take it. I don't know if there's any "history" between you two but that is a sign that he may have feelings for you. Often guys are very comfortable messing around and hugging their friends, but when it comes to "more than friends" they can be very anxious and don't want to force things. Also, if it is a big concern of yours, and you two are such good friends, I would just be honest and talk to him about it and how it makes you feel. Best of luck!!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I think that because you are so close, he doesn't think he needs to make any special effort for you. He may also see you more as "one of the guys", I doubt he hugs his male friends or writes long flowery messages for them. Either way, this doesn't seem personal. You would know it if he actually had a problem with you.. I would let it go.

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