How do women always know?

The fact is your gf will know that you are not the faithful type so any change in your behavior will give you away. Its not about being female and being able to see it its about you feeling guilty (somewhere in your conscious) and giving off signs that anyone who is close to you can pick up on, your gf is the mother of your child so she is probably wired into most of your behavior and actions.

If you find other girls too hard to resist then my advice is to end it with your girlfriend and concentrate on being parents not partners. Don't forget it wont only be your gf picking up on this behavior or tension it will be your son (at least in a few years time) - you will be surprised what young children pick up.

You arent ready to settle down with a life partner but that doesnt mean you arent ready for the responsibility of being dad - a child gets unconditional love from a parent (and you may be a dick to your girl but i can guarantee you love your boy) whereas a partner gets loves but its not unconditional - it cant be because loving a child is different and sometimes our partners push us to the point where its hard to love them sometimes. This is why some relationships dont work even though you love your kid.

A partnership is about compatibility long term and if you dont have that then you better start working on your compatibility as ex's who are parents (it can work better this way) - she can live without you cheating on her and find someone else and you can play the field. It will take some work but you have to admit to yourself you're not willing to spend the rest of your life with her and shes prob sick of you too so the sooner you end it the sooner you can work on being separate parents.

Your kid will not want to know you spent years cheating on his mum so the longer you leave it the worse it will get and to be honest i do think you are a dick (by the cheating) but i do understand not wanting to settle down (my partner wanted us to settle down and i wasnt ready) but that doesnt mean you drag her along for the ride.

Just think you are stuck being a father from now to the day you die and that means you are stuck with her being his mother so this is long term.

Also you say she always goes into angry cat mode - if you loved someone and they ****** around behind your back and denied it all the time would you believe them if one time they didnt actually do it and told you they didnt do it? - the answer is no.

Let her go on to do her own thing which means you're free to do yours and trust me there will be alot of arguments over the kid but make sure you know all your entitlements legally and always watch what you e-mail and text. You really do need to end this as you kid will suffer in thhe end - kids always love their parents and take it from experience they hate to see them fighting and messing each other up, it is true that a broken home is much better than one with 2 parents at each other all the time.

Good luck whatever happens and remember to put your boy first

Wow, Donny, what a prize catch you are, and a bad troll to boot.

Women are better at reading body language than men.

They don't always know . They just assume the worst so it seems that way

Not true.