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? asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 8 years ago

5 months pregnant &Im doing it by myself would u 4get the fact thathe aintbeen there? He ur boyfriend?

Okay I'm 5 months pregnant and my boyfriend has not been there for me not once has he gone with me to a doctors appointment its like drinking & smokibgweed is more important than thehealth of your unborn child time , all he does is hang out with his friends he has no job no money no nothing but it depends on me for money , he did a month and a half in Delaney hall for burglary and has been out for almost 2 months and has not once looked for a job and I cant you depend on him to be there for me when I mean the most what should I do end a three year relationship move on just let him go & put him ob child support what should I do ?

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  • Lihana
    Lv 4
    8 years ago
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    Ask yourself what is best for your baby. Do you think he will be a bad influence on your child? Will the criminal history and drug history have a negative impact on the raising of your child? You are already paying for everything yourself so would officially breaking up with him be so bad? If you break things off you could try and find a guy who will step up to the plate for you and your baby. Or you could stay with him and risk your child following the footsteps of this guy. Is he the father role model you want for your child?

  • 8 years ago

    Thats a no brainer! Imagine how its going to be like when the bby arrives! If your doing fine without him why do you even doubt if its a good idea to have him around living of you?

  • And yet you allowed yourself to get pregnant by this loser ... surely you knew all about him before having unprotected sex with him?

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    u should leave him gurl

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