What's the point of life after 30 if you're still in the same place?

When you're younger you dream of becoming an adult, making money, having a house, etc. But what happens when you hit 30 and NONE of those things have come true for you? I work, but I don't make a lot of money, I can't seem to get a job that pays more than what you would pay a 15-18 year old (Probably my fault for not doing to college I understand) but a lot of the time I sit and wonder "Whats the point!?"...

I have a good GF and we have an apartment together, but I feel bad because she makes more money and has to cover the majority of the expenses..Sometimes I feel like dying would be so much easier than dealing with the constant stress of life, bills, debt, work, and so on with no light at the end of the tunnel. I don't think I could actually kill myself, but I sure do think about it A LOT. I don't know what to do, or who to talk to that won't just judge me or tell me to "keep my head up it will get better" I just want to know if anyone of you went through this, did you get better? and how? Because I feel very lost right now.

Thanks.