Colleges and University considerations...?

Hi I'm a 15 year old female who attends school in Maryland. I am an upcoming sophomore currently in the ib program. My grades aren't the best of my peers but I play soccer, softball and run track and received a varsity letter in the latter two as a freshman. Since my father is in the military I will be switching schools and possibly even moving states.

Being used to moving around I'm looking at higher level schools all over the country and even the world. I just don't know where to start. As of now I'm looking at University of Maryland (cp and bc included), U.Va, UCSB, UNH, University of Montreal, maybe a Rollins or another school in Florida, and Weslyean in CT.

In general I want to go to a universitie with a good vibe and is diverse and isn't just all ghetto people or hipsters. I'd prefer if it's more open minded about gays and such and a big plus for me is a place that has field hockey and lacrosse even if it's just as a sports club like at UCSB. I don't care much about about a schools prestige I just want a place where I can learn about the world and myself while enjoying the few years of youth I have. For what I want to study I really don't but if I had to choose now it would definitely be psychology and french or just any language worldwide. One more thing I prefer big schools with lots of people and a good amount to do in the area. Or at least aren't in the middle of nowhere.

Thanks