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My Pisces ex moved on, but I haven't?
I'm a capricorn woman who was on and off with a pisces man for 2 years. We were great together, but it was the wrong timing. When we split he immediately rushed into a relationship, lived with the girl and got her pregnant. She just recently had the baby a couple months ago. During her pregnancy, he was always with me and trying to repair back our relationship telling me that they had broken up --- I didn't find out about her being pregnant until she was 5 months.
Even before she was about to have the baby, HE kept coming back into my life trying to make things work and told me he sees me as being his wife and that I was the most loyal girl he's ever known. He made things sound really good until I found out he was living a lie and was actually living with her. When I found this out, we got into a huuuge argument. I called him names told him to stay out of my life and he in turn called me names and told me to stay out of his life.
It's been 2 months now, and I think about it everyday. A part of me wants to go message him and apologize but I'm not sure how that would turn out. Now that he has the baby, he probably has no time to even think about me. My fear is being forgotten. I helped him when he was down and had no money or no one to call on and this is the return I get. It's really hard for me to deal with, and I've tried dating other people but I just find myself comparing them to him. What should I do to get over him? Or should I be the bigger person and contact him???
2 Answers
- ?Lv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
I want to congratulate you on your escape of this low down creature.
Naturally you as the emotional developed women that you are, still feel very upset and in turmoil about this.
However destiny saved you from a man far beneath your station... these feelings are sex and emotion related and I can assure you that they will dissipate soon enough as you start actively interacting with other males.
Please look forward..find an emotionally developed man who is able to give your the care, loyalty and attention you really need.
Best wishes,
Leo sun
Cap moon/rising /as
- Anonymous8 years ago
Am sorry this has happened and I understand how you feel, that you love him and all that and miss him, but I don't think you should chase him, if you can be strong and do that, then that would be better for you, because you don't deserve him to treat you like that...
If you want to contact him because you used swear words, then ok, you can apologize about them, if that makes you feel better and allows you to move on. I know what it feels like, I try my best not to use swear words, but I also understand once it is enough it is enough and you just end up saying them, no matter how hard you try not to say them. If someone would cheat on me, I would never forgive them though, and leave without even insulting them, because I think insults are just for those who deserve them (e.g. those I actually care for and who hurt me really bad/disappoint me and, more than just once!).
Disappoint also means insult me multiple times in the first place, so that's why I don't even apologise. If he used swear words with you in the first place, you know you don't owe him any apology.
Source(s): Erving Goffman actually wrote a book, named "interaction ritual". This is why legally you can insult someone who insulted you in the first place. Know your rights lol :P He asked, you answered ;)