Erica

So I’m a Capricorn and I’ve been friends with my Virgo for 2 yrs. We don’t see each other much because we live an hour away. We met in college but we’ve both graduated and living in our hometowns. We talk maybe once a week, maybe 3 times a month. It’s unfortunate.

When I’m around him, he’ll flirt with me, tease me, kiss me on the forehead, cute little things like that. We recently were at a gathering together and I swear that you would think it was just me and him in the room the way we were engaged with each other. But now I’m back in my hometown, and I haven’t heard from him in days. It’s always like this. We get together and it’s like we are a couple but when we’re away…I never hear from him. What does this mean?

We’ve shared with each other that we like one another, but that was in the past, a few months back. Things could have changed. And I know he’s seeing other girls. How do I make myself stand out? I want him so badly, and he doesn’t even know it.

So I'm a Capricorn, I've been friends/friends with benefits with my Virgo guy for two yrs now. We started out as just friends because he had a girlfriend. Then they broke up and we started doing more stuff. He was with her for 5 years and I didn't want to be a rebound girl so I stayed my distance.

Recently, he's seeming like he's super depressed. He doesn't know that I know how much he loved that girl but I can tell by the things he posts on social networks. also, she just recently posted a picture with her new boyfriend. I know if he sees that he will flip.

I want to help him so bad and be the friend to him that I was in the beginning before any feelings between us began but he will not open up to me. He scares me with how low his moods are. He smokes a lot of weed lately, his room is a disaster which reflects his life. He sticks to himself pretty much but he does have a lot of male friends which is why I'm not too concerned because maybe he talks to them about his problems. I work in the mental health field so its concerning me he might be depressed and I don't know how to help him, he kinda pushes me away with his short answers and nonchalant attitude.

I just want to know how can I get him to open up or how can I make him feel better without annoying him or seeming like I'm prying into his business? I know why he's sad, I've been through a rough breakup before too. but he doesn't know that I know these things...help

we both have moon signs in aries*

I’m a Capricorn, dealing with this virgo for almost 2 yrs now. started out as friends bc he had a girlfriend and back then he was super flirty with me but I wasn’t going for it. So we stayed friends but kept it at a distance. They were together for 5 years but they broke up. He used to tell me that he’s not the committed type&that girls are his weakness. So first red flag.

When he became single, he and I got closer, started getting intimate, &spending the night with each other. But then we’ll go days w/o speaking to each other. He also told me he likes me. And I told him I like him back. But there’s times when he’ll post pictures up of him dancing with this one particular girl in the club. He’s like…in love with her and he’s known her since high school (I did my research). We’re graduated from college by the way.

I don’t call him or initiate anything bc I don’t want to face rejection. When he calls me , he points out the fact that if it weren't for him calling me, we wouldn’t talk at all. Which is true, but it’s bc I don’t want to play myself. I don’t understand how someone can say they like u but do the complete opposite. I feel like every time that I do show him my affection or reach out to him, he ignores me or takes really long to get back to me. So I just shut down altogether.

Idk how to handle him, we haven't established what we really are so I don't wanna make it uncomfortable by bringing it up. What to do?!

I'm a capricorn woman; me and my virgo friend have been close for over a year now. We started "getting intimate" maybe 6 months ago but it's just a friends with benefits type thing. I know he's not trying to be in a relationship, he's focused on his education and career (we're in our senior yr of college). He's expressed to me that he likes me and this is the only reason I've begun to let my guard down. But now I regret letting it down because he disappears and pays me hardly any attention. I hear from him about once a week and I probably see him twice a month.

Just recently he posted pictures of him and this girl in the club. And I immediately got jealous. I haven't told him and I don't plan to because I don't wanna make things awkward or seem like I'm being possessive. Do you think he's trying to make me jealous? How can I get him back? Should I just ignore him for a while? I feel like I'm in too deep but should probably get out now. I just really like him and don't know where to go from here...

Your thoughts are appreciated.

(we both have aries moons, and his mars in gemini, venus in virgo)

I'm a capricorn woman; me and my virgo friend have been close for over a year now. We started "getting intimate" maybe 6 months ago but it's just a friends with benefits type thing. I know he's not trying to be in a relationship, he's focused on his education and career (we're in our senior yr of college). He's expressed to me that he likes me and this is the only reason I've begun to let my guard down. But now I regret letting it down because he disappears and pays me hardly any attention. I hear from him about once a week and I probably see him twice a month.

Just recently he posted pictures of him and this girl in the club. And I immediately got jealous. I haven't told him and I don't plan to because I don't wanna make things awkward or seem like I'm being possessive. Do you think he's trying to make me jealous? How can I get him back? Should I just ignore him for a while? I feel like I'm in too deep but should probably get out now. I just really like him and don't know where to go from here...

Your thoughts are appreciated.

I am a Capricorn and have been friends with this virgo for more than a year now. We've been getting closer and closer, as well as very intimate and sexual. However, he always disappears on me for days at a time. He has told me he likes me, and he shows it when he's around me. Very affectionate. But when we're apart, I miss him so much. And me also being an earth sign I'm afraid of rejection and feeling like I'm bothering someone. I'm not used to "chasing" a guy I'm used to them chasing me.

How can someone say they like you but not talk to you for days? It's nothing new, he's always been like this. But when we're together everything's perfect. How can I get him to not be so distant?

Also, he told me the other day that his life is in shambles and I asked him to talk to me about it. He said he didn't want to so I let it be. How can I get this man to open up to me? We've been friends for too long!

I'm a capricorn woman and have been close friends with this virgo man for over a year now. We've become extremely close this past yr (its our last year in college) and we've also had sex. Each time we have sex, it gets better and better. He surprises me with new tricks, positions and passion. I get horny just talking about it. The only problem is....We don't do it as much as I'd like. And I understand it's probably because we're "just friends" and we also are hard workers and focused on school. But I'm lucky if I get sex from him twice a month or once every two weeks. I don't know what to do or how to tell him that I need more more more! Lmao. My ex was a Pisces and we would have sex at least 3x a week so this is a drastic change for me and it's killing me.

Is it normal for virgos to have low sex drives?

I am losing my mind over this virgo man. I'm about ready to call it quits. I'm a capricorn by the way.

He and I have been friends for over a yr now. We took a very long time to get close to each other and just started having a sexual relationship a while ago. Recently he told me he liked me and in turn, I let down my guard and told him that I liked him as well. But I swear ever since then he's been super distant. Valentines day, he sent me a funny joke about "is my name homework bcus I should be doing you." I laughed bcus we have that kind of relationship where I don't take things like that seriously. but now I'm starting to re-think that maybe he just sees me as a sex partner. I haven't heard from him in 5 days. he does this frequently, goes away for long periods of time and then reappears.

For someone who says they like me, his actions sure aren't matching up.

I just remember he and I being the best of friends, I would see him at least one or twice a week. Now I barely see or hear from him and I refuse to chase him. I feel so stupid for telling him how I feel.

Is this common with virgos? Should I just give up and move on?

I'm a capricorn and he is a virgo. We met a year and a half ago and were at first, the greatest of friends. We just started revealing to each other that we "like" one another. We've even had sex a few times.

The thing is though, I find it hard to read him. Some days he's calling me to talk to me and some days I don't hear from him at all. I messaged him today to let him know that I was thinking about him and I got no reply back whatsoever. He usually doesn't ignore me but recently he has seemed a little more distant.

When and if he reaches out to me again, should I answer him back or ignore him like he did to me? I'm kind of upset because one of my biggest pet peeves is to be ignored and it's not the first time he's done this. It's making me question why I even opened up to him about my feelings. Your thoughts?

I'm a Capricorn, he's a virgo. I've known him for a year and 6 months now; we started out as being the best of friends and then a few months ago we finally started getting more intimate with each other if u know what I mean. Now he's slowly starting to show that he likes me and I've confessed how I felt for him as well.

I feel like the both of us hold back a lot when we're around each other. I've had so many bad experiences with relationships that I've become very shut down. I'm shy around him and I hate that I act like this. I just like him so much and don't want to say or do the wrong thing that might turn him off because I've heard Virgos are fussy and critical. I also know that he's recently broken up with a girl he was with for 5 years. He doesn't know I know and I've never brought it up bcus I simply don't want to.

My question is, what are some things I can do or say to get him to open up? I think that he's heartbroken and I want to show him that I'm not out to hurt him, only care for him. Because I really do like him.

Any personal experiences from fellow capricorns or virgos would be extremely helpful!

I'm a capricorn woman. I've been friends with this virgo for a year and some months now. We met in college, and just recently we started having sex. I'm single. When I first met him, he had a girlfriend. And we were just friends This year though, it seems as though they broke up. However on his social media sites, he posts these really depressing statuses as though he misses her (they were together for 5 years).

So when I contact him, he flirts with me. He sends me this poem that I'm sure was written for someone else and he gives me all this advice about reaching for my goals and things like that. I really like this kid BUT I don't want to be the rebound girl. It seems like he's really vulnerable and he's just using his charm on the closest girl available or whomever shows him any kind of attention.

How do I know if he's genuinely interested in me or if I'm just the rebound girl? We were really good friends before we started taking it further. I thought it would just be a fling but I'm starting to really like him. I don't want to get hurt but I think I've already put myself in the danger zone.

Thoughts?

I'm a capricorn woman, and have been friends with this virgo male for a year and some months. We got super close after sharing the same class in our junior yr of college.

He'd always spend the night with me, cuddle, little things like that. Then finally this year, we had sex. And for some strange reason I am SUPER shy around him. I'm actually intimidated by him. He's so sensual and I love that about him. And he knows what he's doing. Me on the other hand, I'd just rather let him dominate. I don't lay there like a dead fish or anything but I'm scared to take charge. I think he can sense my self-consciousness. I hate it.

I want to leave this man coming back for more and thinking about me 24/7, how do I get over this shyness in bed? Do virgos prefer submissive or dominate partners? Help please...

Ok so I am a Capricorn woman. I met my virgo friend a year ago in college, we shared the same spanish class and clicked instantly. We've been friends ever since. We've always had built up sexual tension so after a year and some months of knowing each other we FINALLY had sex. And it was great!

So recently, I've been getting good-morning texts from him, he'll show me more attention than he did before we were having sex. But then there's days where he totally disappears. He's very busy and into his work as he is a videographer and stays up all night editing. So I give him the benefit of the doubt because he's a hard worker and I give him his space to do that.

But I think it's just a friends with benefits type deal, which I'm okay with because I myself just got out of bad relationship and I'm not ready for a new one.

So my question is...how can I tell if he likes me or if this is just a fling? I love our friendship, we connect on so many levels it's crazy. But I don't know if it will ever turn into something. I'm kinda just going with the flow....

I'm a Capricorn female. Me and my Pisces were together off and on for 2 yrs. In the midst of these crazy two yrs, he had a baby by another woman. So now he's basically stuck with her. I tried to stick it through with him but he kept lying and eventually we got into a huge argument, said some really mean things to each other. 3 months passed and he reached out to me. We became friends again..

He travels in and out of state so when he needs a ride from the airport sometimes I pick him up and drop him off to his home (where he lives with her and the baby). I've always done things for him because I care and we get to catch up on each other's lives. Well I'm in my last yr of college and I've been dating other guys, going out with my girls, enjoying my life basically and he's aware of that. But out of the blue, he stopped talking to me. He doesn't text me or face time me like he used to. It's been two weeks since we held an actual conversation. So I decided to reach out to him and see how he was doing. He sent back the driest, shortest response. Didn't even ask how I was doing or anything. We're friends on all social networks. I asked him was everything fine and he said "yeah we're cool". And that was it.

What's up with that? I didn't do anything wrong! Why does it feel like he hates me?? I miss our friendship and I don't think it's ever coming back...can someone please explain this?

So I'm a Capricorn woman. And I really like this new Virgo guy; just met him about 3 weeks ago. We connected INSTANTLY. He's gonna take me on our first date this upcoming week. The funny thing is, I don't hear from him that much. He's on this every-other day pattern. And I feel like I should initiate some of the contact but I read somewhere that Virgo men like mysterious women, and if they're mysterious they tend to think about them. He's a really hot guy so I'm sure he's got tons of other women waiting in line.

So my question is, how can I make myself stand out? I'm not the type of woman who chases men so should I continue to play the mysterious game or should I contact him every once in a while to let him know I'm thinking of him? Because I think about him A LOT!

I'm a Capricorn woman, been back and forth with my Pisces ex for two yrs now (long story). We always have the best sex and he's always pleasing me but I feel bad because I want to please him sometime, really want to blow him away and surprise him with some tricks.

So my question is what do pisces men like? I heard their erogenous zone is their feet but he won't let me go NEAR his feet lol he's very squeemish I can't even touch him without him saying it tickles. It's frustrating!

Long story short: I'm a Capricorn. He's a Virgo. We met a yr ago, shared a class together in college. Became really close friends. Summer came, he told me how much he missed me. The semester has started back up again and he texted me wanting to meet up. We met up, spent the whole day/night together. Had an intense makeout session, now I can't stop thinking about him.

Downside: Just found out he has a girlfriend (of 5 years). Why'd he keep her from me? Are virgos naturally liars? How can he like me and be in a relationship at the same time? He's perfect for me in every way and I can't even call him mine. I'm bummed. :(

So I am a Capricorn woman and I met this really cool Virgo guy last year. We go to the same university, had a class together and ever since then we became really close friends. During the summer break, he would text me every once in a while checking on me and telling me how much he missed me. Then finally when classes started back up, he made it priority that we meet up and catch up. So we met up, and that same night he came to my on-campus apartment and stayed the night with me. And boy did things get passionate and steamy! We didn’t go all the way but it was intense. Now I find myself thinking about him every day. I’m really crushing on this guy. But there’s a downside to it all….

I just found out he has a girlfriend (who he’s been dating since HIGH SCHOOL!). Mind you this is all of our senior year in college. So my question is, what’s up with Virgo men…are they naturally flirty and don’t mean any harm by it or does this guy like me and he’s just a big *** cheater? Either way, I don’t want him now that I know what type of guy he is. But it confuses me as to why he’d do that to his girlfriend. I know it's obvious that he's a jerk but I love our friendship, I don't want this one little thing to end it. What should I do?

I am a Capricorn woman. It’s been two months since I’ve spoken with my on-again-off-again ex Pisces man. He recently had a child by another woman who he jumped into a relationship with after one of our breakups. During her pregnancy, she was living somewhere else and he was spending every single waking minute with me. I knew nothing about the pregnancy until 5 months in. Even when I found out, I still decided to stay and try to work things out. But things got messy when she moved back to our hometown. I removed myself from the situation because I didn’t want to be a second choice. Two months passed and he came back into my life trying to make things work, talking about marriage and seeing a future with me, told me I’m the most honest and loyal girl he knows. I fell for it. Shortly after, I found out that he was living a lie and living with her. He explained that he has an obligation to her because of the baby and that things would be different after it was born. But I had had enough. I exploded, then he exploded. We both said very mean things, told each other to stay out each other’s life, etc..

It’s been two months and I see no sign of him returning this time. My question is, is it common for a Pisces to be so hurt by harsh words that they’ll swim away forever?? I don’t want to be the girl who chases him down and apologizes for her feelings. Is the only way I’m going to speak to him if I initiate contact? Did my anger scare him away for good? We’ve had fights before because of his LIES and he’s stayed away but not for too long. Now that the baby is here I feel that he has forgotten about me and it’s been hard for me to move on. I’m not saying I want a man who lies, I just want him to wake up and be a man and admit his mistakes and apologize. What should I do?

I'm a capricorn woman who was on and off with a pisces man for 2 years. We were great together, but it was the wrong timing. When we split he immediately rushed into a relationship, lived with the girl and got her pregnant. She just recently had the baby a couple months ago. During her pregnancy, he was always with me and trying to repair back our relationship telling me that they had broken up --- I didn't find out about her being pregnant until she was 5 months.

Even before she was about to have the baby, HE kept coming back into my life trying to make things work and told me he sees me as being his wife and that I was the most loyal girl he's ever known. He made things sound really good until I found out he was living a lie and was actually living with her. When I found this out, we got into a huuuge argument. I called him names told him to stay out of my life and he in turn called me names and told me to stay out of his life.

It's been 2 months now, and I think about it everyday. A part of me wants to go message him and apologize but I'm not sure how that would turn out. Now that he has the baby, he probably has no time to even think about me. My fear is being forgotten. I helped him when he was down and had no money or no one to call on and this is the return I get. It's really hard for me to deal with, and I've tried dating other people but I just find myself comparing them to him. What should I do to get over him? Or should I be the bigger person and contact him???