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Why is Virgo so distant?
Ok so I am a Capricorn woman. I met my virgo friend a year ago in college, we shared the same spanish class and clicked instantly. We've been friends ever since. We've always had built up sexual tension so after a year and some months of knowing each other we FINALLY had sex. And it was great!
So recently, I've been getting good-morning texts from him, he'll show me more attention than he did before we were having sex. But then there's days where he totally disappears. He's very busy and into his work as he is a videographer and stays up all night editing. So I give him the benefit of the doubt because he's a hard worker and I give him his space to do that.
But I think it's just a friends with benefits type deal, which I'm okay with because I myself just got out of bad relationship and I'm not ready for a new one.
So my question is...how can I tell if he likes me or if this is just a fling? I love our friendship, we connect on so many levels it's crazy. But I don't know if it will ever turn into something. I'm kinda just going with the flow....
5 Answers
- ?Lv 58 years agoFavorite Answer
Personally, I think he truly likes you. I don't think it's just a fling. You have to understand that Virgos are so emotionally detached and it takes them FOREVER to commit. Virgos work very hard, yes. And they're prone to those disappearing acts... It can be days to weeks to months at a time. So if it's only a few days, give him a break. You're on the lucky end. Whatever you do, don't bog him down with your feelings about what he's doing... It'll make him feel trapped and he'll go even more distant. Virgos are very sweet... Those good morning texts are an example. Just give him time... Spend a lot of time with him, let him warm up to you even more, and if you're STILL unsure... Ask him straight out. Avoid being all emotional about it.
But I have to agree and say Virgos are very sensitive deep down. Do you know his other placements? The Virgo I talk to has a Cancer rising. When we first started talking I couldn't even tell if he liked me, and then after a few months he opened up and was more loving, and months later from that... now he's pretty needy. So the rest of his chart makes a big difference.
Source(s): Libra sun/Gemini moon/Leo venus and mars/Taurus rising - VirgoPrincess ♍Lv 68 years ago
i doubt it if this would turn into anything serious as you said it might be jus friends with benefits. he might be just busy. but be careful with this as virgos are sensitive too deep down.
yeh go with the flow and see what happens you never know.
- FracturedLv 78 years ago
If you buy into all the nonsense of astrology you will be asking the same kinds of questions in 30 years time and STILL be non the wiser.
- 8 years ago
Viragos are hopeless romantics and even though there earth signs, they love to talk. If he talks to you about romance or love in general a lot, there's a chance he really likes you.
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