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Mixed signs from VIRGO?
So I’m a Capricorn and I’ve been friends with my Virgo for 2 yrs. We don’t see each other much because we live an hour away. We met in college but we’ve both graduated and living in our hometowns. We talk maybe once a week, maybe 3 times a month. It’s unfortunate.
When I’m around him, he’ll flirt with me, tease me, kiss me on the forehead, cute little things like that. We recently were at a gathering together and I swear that you would think it was just me and him in the room the way we were engaged with each other. But now I’m back in my hometown, and I haven’t heard from him in days. It’s always like this. We get together and it’s like we are a couple but when we’re away…I never hear from him. What does this mean?
We’ve shared with each other that we like one another, but that was in the past, a few months back. Things could have changed. And I know he’s seeing other girls. How do I make myself stand out? I want him so badly, and he doesn’t even know it.
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- Astrology.comLv 67 years agoFavorite Answer
That's hard. It sounds like you've both been open about your feelings for one another -- yet the distance persists. I wonder what it is blocking you two from going forward -- outside the physical distance? When a guy likes you, he'll tend to find a way to make it happen. It's all to easy to make up excuses for him or blame it on yourself (as if you don't stand out enough). I mean you could pray, set intentions, clear space around it -- or you could go for the gold and just tell him. I mean you sort of already did -- but if you think he's that thick-headed, what do you have to lose? Wouldn't you rather look back on your life and say you tried? That way you'll really know and you can move forward. Virgo's can be careful and incredibly picky but they need love just as much as the next guy ... I wouldn't deter you from being forward, or even a little aggressive (the guy may need it!) but ultimately you'll have to be okay with whatever answer you get and ultimately, he'll have to make the decision on his own. And you should want him to. He's either yours or he isn't and it's not fair to you to hold on if he can't pull the trigger and at least endeavor a more serious, committed relationship with you. Don't settle for less. If he thinks he can have his cake and eat it too, he may not feel like he has to make a decision. Good luck!
- ?Lv 77 years ago
Mixed signs always mean mixed feelings.
He apparently likes how HE feels when he flirts with you but this is not necessarily the same thing as liking you.
And if he's not actively chasing after you, he's not that into you. You could meet a guy tomorrow who sweeps you off your feet .. and the reason you are available is because this Virgo guy hasn't snapped you up first.
When a guy really likes a girl he makes sure there's no room for anyone else to nudge their way into her heart.
How do you make yourself stand out?
He notices you in the first 5 seconds of meeting you ... and if that doesn't do it, nothing will.
The longer you obsess about him and hang on, the longer you will be unhappy. He's not going to come around.
