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Why is this Virgo so confusing?
I'm a capricorn woman; me and my virgo friend have been close for over a year now. We started "getting intimate" maybe 6 months ago but it's just a friends with benefits type thing. I know he's not trying to be in a relationship, he's focused on his education and career (we're in our senior yr of college). He's expressed to me that he likes me and this is the only reason I've begun to let my guard down. But now I regret letting it down because he disappears and pays me hardly any attention. I hear from him about once a week and I probably see him twice a month.
Just recently he posted pictures of him and this girl in the club. And I immediately got jealous. I haven't told him and I don't plan to because I don't wanna make things awkward or seem like I'm being possessive. Do you think he's trying to make me jealous? How can I get him back? Should I just ignore him for a while? I feel like I'm in too deep but should probably get out now. I just really like him and don't know where to go from here...
Your thoughts are appreciated.
(we both have aries moons, and his mars in gemini, venus in virgo)
3 Answers
- BubblesLv 47 years ago
Unfortunately listing data like this is incomplete. I can only use sun sign pattern astrology to determine if your relationship will work out & apply that to the limited aspects you have provided. That information is inaccurate at best.
Basically, you need to make a synastry chart. Since you have calculated these aspects I assume you know you (and your man's) EXACT time of birth, location, and full date. If not your info is incomplete and you should not be using it. You have to know your, and his info right down to the very minute as it is on your birth certificate. Most people can't find this information which leads to inaccurate results like relying on sun sign or guesstimating. A synastry chart is needed because you've only listed like 10% of this/your birth chart. A synastry chart is comparing two persons birth charts for whatever reason love, friends, enemies, business, family, etc. The eases & challenges of the relationship, & the length are all determined by looking at every aspect and how each aspect relates to one another. A love/marriage/long term relationship is characterized by a conjunct, sextile, or trine in one's Moon (emotions), Ascendant (how others see you), Venus (intimacy), Mercury (communication) Mars (desires/ambition/conflicts), Saturn (marriage/traditions), or Pluto (death, transformation, sex).
I'll explain below how to create a synastry chart for free. You can upload it here.
He/Virgo is not confusing. This is typical Virgo behavior - when he is not invested in a relationship. Which pretty much every Virgo wants to be independent for the most part. Even if they are in a relationship they keep it VERY open.
You are correct - if you mention anything about the other woman he will feel you are being possessive, and snoopy. And, in his mind, immature. Immature because he probably has this warped view that he can hang out with any woman, flirt it up, and it will be okay. He'll even go as far as to lie and say nothing happened between the two just to keep you around.
The problem is you put out too soon. Now he feels like he can get it any time he wants, since he has spent so much time away & you haven't put up a fuss he's going to pursue other prospects. He may have even done this if you wanted him around all the time. It's just the way he is. Sure, he could have said you are the type of girl he would like to marry. But he didn't say he wants to get married, and he didn't put a ring on your finger. He didn't even ask for a real relationship. He has a no strings attached relationship. So he certainly didn't mean to make you jealous. In his mind you two have an open relationship. He may get jealous if you start posting pics of you and other guys, but he won't be able to argue that is your freedom since he stipulated the no strings attached approach to the relationship. He may even want you a little bit more since you have chosen to exercise you independence, and he doesn't like other guys playing with his toys. He is possessive believe it or not.
So he made you jealous, make him jealous back. Get dressed up, go out, and take a pic with some guy that's better than him. He'll come back to you, if he does try and set boundaries. One being if he wants to see you again he has to take you out on real a date, no sex afterward, if the date goes well he has to commit to a relationship. If he can't/won't do that you'll have your answer, you won't need to waste your time with this guy anymore. Don't be a doormat. Do something about it. Either get your man's attention back on you, forgive him for what he's done, leave it in the past so you don't bring up issues, and live happily ever after. If not ditch the guy, and find mr. perfect, live happily ever after. The choice is yours. either is good. sorry this had to happen, best of luck to you!
Go to astro.com the extended charts section, enter your information exactly as you see on your birth certificate. It takes you to a new screen, change the drop down box that says 'natal chart' to 'synastry chart'.
Look back at the drop down box that says your Name/Info, beneath your box there is another drop down, next to that it says add another person in a blue link. Do not click the one with your info next to it, click the second one down. Enter your man's info. It brings you back to the screen with the drop downs. Scroll down, on the left reduce the orb ratio down to 40% so you can read the chart. Scroll down some more, hold the CTRL key, Click on the left to add the asteroids Part of Fortune, Juno, Vertex, & Vesta. Calculate your chart. Hover over your chart. Click, Copy, & Paste into the Paint program on your computer. Crop out your personal info like your name. Save as a JPEG. Go to yahoo answers, create a new headline, ask for a synastry chart analysis. Ask what the eases and challenges of your relationship will be, is it long lasting, is it even worth the trouble?!
Sure using sun sign alone it says you to are really great, the best off in fact. But sun sign is only your ego. Has nothing to do with love. Your egos do well together though. They form a conjunct!
There you go! Once again! Good luck!