The truth about VIRGO men?

Sneaky & TONS of baggage

I wouldn't say all Virgos are liars, but they do tend to feel they have the right to sneak around. It's an entitlement for them, to them it's no big deal. He WILL do the same thing to you he's doing to her. Virgos are often pursued by women, he'll play it all off like he's not interested and you have nothing to worry about. He'll make excuses and blame other people, (including you). If you approach him about his gf, he'll lie, or blame her somehow.

You'll always catch Virgos with girls who have low self-esteem or are going through a rough time. i.e. just getting out of a break up, new to town and don't know a lot of people, they don't think anyone likes them... Virgos put up a front as though they are perfect. You have no idea how much of a mess they are, it is all a superficial front. However Virgo try to find someone who *thinks* they are more of a mess than the Virgo. In other words, a desperate girl. Even if she is wonderful, but doesn't think highly of herself, she'll fall for a Virgo. Virgos like damaged goods because they'll dutifully put up with their nonsense. It'll take her years to really figure out the he's the messed up one because he will hide behind his front for as long as possible.

What you know about him now is just the tip of the ice burg, be happy you found out before things went any further. In truth, he's very far from perfect for you. Deep down, you know it's just a front and he's not right for you. You are already suspicious and he's betrayed your trust. He'll do it again and again and make you out to be the bad guy for not forgiving him again and again. Virgo's will always play you and think it's what you deserve for falling for them. Caps females are very instinctive and his sneaky twisting of the truth will get under your skin until you just can't stand him.

Lastly, I'll say that no matter what, a Virgo will never be the ultimate love of your life. I know that seems odd because you read all the time about how great Virgos are for Caps. There's so much better out there. As a Cap, you'll see how it gets better once you refuse to settle for less. All of the guys who are really good for you will start to pop up every where but you HAVE to not settle and not put up with BS. Someone who would misuse your trust and affection can never be perfect for you. Trust is VERY important to Caps and it's too hard to find a trust worthy Virgo.

He'll try to explain and you'll think you can just forgive him and understand but being a Cap, he'll never win your trust again. He'll sense that you don't fully trust him and he'll disappoint you again and again using your mistrust (which is his fault but he'll blame you) as his reason for messing up. I've watched many Cap & Virgo couples go through this vicious cycle day after day, year after year. A Cap who stays with this type of Virgo is just punishing themselves or has low self esteem. You are worthy of someone who will be upfront and honest with you, no matter what. Virgos always have excuses to accompany their deceptions but you have to keep reminding your self that you deserve better.

Don't bother, just move on. Virgo's are players and manipulators who come with a lot of baggage, excuses, and disappointments. Get out while you can, just be friends. When you see what he does to other girls, you'll be happy you got out when you did.

Always be weary of guys who seem perfect. A really good match for you will not have to deceive you with the illusion of perfection. That's all Virgos do, deceive. No one is perfect, which is why Virgo doesn't actually make the effort to even be decent, they just create a delusion and then blame you for falling for it. When he sneaks around on you, he'll tell you that you deserve it for falling for him in the first place, when you knew it was an act. They have lots of girls telling them how perfect they are, yet Virgo always ends up alone and everyone knows why...

When (if) you do meet a truly decent Virgo, it's usually because they got a taste of their own medicine and have straightened out their act. Virgos never settle down until they are good and ready. Until then, they just lie.

Best Wishes, have confidence and esteem in yourself and walk away. Something better awaits! Watch form a safe distance as desperate girls throw themselves at him but don't join them.

Virgo or not, when you see yourself falling for this type of guy, catch yourself. Stop contact for a while, work on your self-esteem and self love. Focus on yourself, giving yourself all the love and attention you need. Soon you'll be wondering why you ever gave him the time of day. Worthy men love women who believe they are worthy.

Any relationship will and can take work but if you're struggling all the time it's not worth it. It won't change. Move on. Stop being so focused on him, get a life, go out and have fun, find yourself again before this self loathing man baby zaps you of all the loveliness that you are. These are the kind of people who can dish it out but can't take it. Also be warned..they are very good with words. Don't fall for it..use it against them.

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The truth about VIRGO men?

Long story short: I'm a Capricorn. He's a Virgo. We met a yr ago, shared a class together in college. Became really close friends. Summer came, he told me how much he missed me. The semester has started back up again and he texted me wanting to meet up. We met up, spent the whole day/night...

Wow, ES P wrote it very well. I myself don't have a love experience with Virgo (simply bc. i find them very unattractive), but my boyfriend has a virgo friend (whom I also know) who was such a bastard to his gf of 4 years. It was almost the same case ES P described. She had a low self-esteem (even though she was quite pretty and very nice... please, girls, love yourselves!! xoxo). He was psychicaly (cursing) a physicaly (pulling her hair, slapping her) abusive towards her, even though she would do anything for him. He was even talking **** about her when he was with his friends. He once said to my bf (who bought me a fixed gear bike for my birthday) that he would never ever buy her anything of a price. The worst is, that at first sight most people woud never tell he is like that. He's usually very funny, witty and a life of a party, but i felt some fakeness from him the first moment i saw him.

My bf's dad is also a virgo, and my lovely aquarian and his gemini mother went to hell and back with this abusive, controlling, mean (financially), rigid, crazy ****, who once (among many things) beat his 12 yr old son (on kidneys) til he peed himself, just because he used all of the greaser (his dad STOLE from work) on his and his friends bikes. There you go, a virgo.

Another case, my best friend's bf (of nine months) is a virgo, she is a scorpio, so they sould be a match made in heaven. Well, not really. She, as a scorpio is suspisious (sometimes alot!), but honestly, with him, there is no wonder. In the beggining he cheated on her with his ex. She also told me, that he can't look anyone in the eye when talking to them (like, noone, that is very strange, isn't it?). They are engaged. Few days ago (new year's eve), he got drunk, screamed at her in the middle of the forrest in the middle of the night, threw away her flashlight and told her that she is a ****, that he just wants to **** and doesn't want to marry her anyway.

I obviously cannot say, that all virgo males are crazy bastards, but sorry, i definitely see some kind od pattern here.

Girl they are players!!!!!! They know how to sweep you off your feet, and make you feel so comfortable. You will instantly feel a strong connection after spending quality time....and since you were intimate with this Virgo..I know you were feeling the vibes.

They usually don't come out and reveal their baggage, you'll usually have to discover this on your on or the hard way.

But once you find out or confront them about the discovery, they will be honest.

Most virgo men like to have their cake and eat it too....**pLAYERRSS :)

Virgo men are players period. They have girls chasing them. I say move on he has a gf for 5 yrs thats along time, If he wants u he'll leave her & come n get you. & right now hes not doing that move on. theres plenty of fish in sea

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