Was. what I did that bad?Husband slapped me?

Real men never hit women and I would be fine with what you done and if you were my wife I would be happy for you to do a lot more

Welllll... let me start off saying this: 'put the shoe on the other foot'... what if he decided to put his thing in your mouth while you're sleeping? Would you slap him? I suspect that would be a 'yes'.

You violated him in a way... sexual interaction should be a mutual, and cognitive thing between two people. Doing so when one is asleep is on the borderline of rape/molestation... depending on what is actually being done. It's wrong. Try enticing him into pleasurable interaction when he is AWAKE, and receptive to such things. If you were a guy, the advice would still be the same. Maybe you need to invest in the proper 'toy' for times like this, if you find the urges are frequent and at inopportune times for your man. However, don't replace him with it.. just use it as a backup plan if necessary.

Um lmao. Strange question. Yea he had the right to slap u. I would've if I was u woke me up to that because hello I'm trying to sleep!!!!!!!! Work around ur mans schedule. & let him sleep! Respect him! U wouldn't want him to wake u up when u were sleeping.

Sex is best before or after sleep not in the middle of it :D So arouse him when he is awake and not when he is asleep...nobody likes it i guess.

And yes, better try his third hand next time instead of his finger :P

Good luck

Using another for sexual satisfaction when they sleep is wrong, regardless. Maybe his slap was out of order, but so were you.

You woke him up. Don't do that if he's tired and wants to sleep. I don't like that my wife wake me even for sex when I'm too tired

its weird, but not worth you getting slapped. and as for your last sentence,i cannot read, so i cannot help you...please learn to type and spell. I wish you the best.

Maybe he was still pretty sleepy and you two can talk about it in the morning..

No man should ever hit you