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Am I over sensitive to feel hurt when my bf of 9 months looks at other women? It is kinda sneaky stare.?

I am 32 and he is 36. He talks about future. He was direct with his state until I brought it up but now its more sneaky.

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  • John W
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
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    Guys are always going to look, there is no getting around that. Most women are comfortable with the old "Its ok to check the menu as long as you don't order anything"philosophy. Yes, its a compromise, but you don't really think he would jeopardize his relationship with you by doing anything with another woman do you? If you do then he probably isn't the guy for you, or there may not be one.

  • 8 years ago

    It hurts, I know. It makes you feel that you are not enough, and hurts your dignity some how. I would never stay with a man who does that. It's just too much for me. I would just leave him to make him wanna stop, if he truly loves me, then he will be afraid of loosing me.

  • 8 years ago

    So he didn't stop...why would you stay with somebody who will disrespect you? Be with somebody who is interested in you only

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