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Is 15 girlfriends a lot?

So there's those guy I'm into were both really into each other and considering dating he told me he has had 15 different girlfriends in his whole life ... He's only a high school senior... Should I be concerned?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    Fifteen is a lot in general, but especially for a kid in high school. Like a previous comment said, don't dive in. Of course, this is how all relationships should be treated, with caution. Long or short track record, you never really know what you're getting into. It's up to you to give people a chance, just be smart about it.

  • 8 years ago

    I am pretty sure he is a player unless he is counting GF's from when he was younger. I would take this with some caution. I could be wrong and he isn't a player, but I just wonder how long some of these crushes of his lasted. The last part would be my main concern. As a guy I feel like he moves on fast. The fact he can count up to 15 women is pretty significant. I can remember all the girls I have liked and it does not add up to 15..take it how you will, but I think he is a player. Liking a girl is special at least to me. Seriously how many of those girls actually had his heart? Do you think you do?? Try not to be to invested into this (because if you do became invested I bet he dumps you as forewarning). Play it cool. Maybe ask him why they broke up?? Maybe it has to do with him and he likes trying out girls, but maybe it wasn't a fit or something he is weird(I don't think that is the case though cuz he sounds like chic magnet). I really hope this helps.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Well it depends. Did he break up with them? If so i would be concerned that he moves on to different girls very quickly. Or gets bored of his girlfriends quickly. If they broke up with him i wouldnt be too concerned other than maybe he's just really weird or has something bad about him. But either way 15 girlfriends is a lot for only a high school senior.

  • 8 years ago

    So, if he started at 13, each girlfriend lasted, maybe 3 or 4 months until he moved on to the next. If you are willing to take a chance and be part of a series, go for it. Just beware of the averages and risks. Good luck.

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  • 8 years ago

    Are you talking about sexual experiences? I guess you are. Well, let's say the guy's 17 and has been active for three years. That's 5 women per year. Hell, I know a guy that's 57 and has had 6 or more in the last 2 years alone.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    15 official girlfriends is a lot to me. I wonder if he even liked them and wonder just how long they lasted. On the other hand, I wonder what his definition of a girlfriend is. I have known plenty of people who say they have had so-so number of gf's/bf's but in reality they never made it official...it was just dating or friends with benefits.

    So I would be worried if he has had 15 girlfriends.

  • Ron
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    I would be a little concerned. That is strange. Also avoid trouble by avoiding premartial sex,abortion, drunkeness,homosexuality,all sin God can forgive and we just ask Jesus in our hearts,forgive our sins to be saved,He is Faithful an Just to forgive all our sins,no matter how bad. Jesus loves ya'll, may He Bless,speak to,save ya'll,give good Christians,meet the needs,in Jesus Mighty Name amen. Shalom Have faith in God. Mark 11:22 Praise ye,The LORD. Pslam 150:6

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Depends on the reasons they broke up, could just be crappy pairing or he could just be trying to find the right girl. I wouldn't be too concerned, but if you're really getting bothered by it, ask him what happened and why so many, good luck

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    he meets a girl likes her stops liking her cause he's found another girl and then he likes her then he finds another girl and the cycle went on and on THIRTEEN more times, you're about to be the 16th time so, ain't **** gonna change. yes. be concerned.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    "In his whole life" this suggests he's counting girls from when he was a little kid. I doubt there is anything to worry about, just don't do anything you'll regret, namely sex.

    If he is a player, you don't want to of had sex with him and then for him to dump you.

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