LGBT: explain this to me?

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I used to be homophobic, always cracking at laughing at gay jokes, seeing gays as this gross species, but now that I'm bisexual, I'm incredibly remorseful, depressed, and confused. Now I see gay guys as cute and normal, I used to be so hateful. I'm bi actually, but more attraction to guys. When I see guys get all riled up over a girl, I feel left out. I'd have sex with a girl and enjoy hugging/kissing them, but j don't get boners from seeing hot girls. Anyone else go through this? I'm terribly sorry for what I was like, but I don't deserve this. I am almost fully accepting of gays, and even though it feels right, I also feels so wrong, help me!

Anonymous · Answer

It sounds to me like you're more gay than bisexual but you are having trouble coming to terms with your sexuality. Gay and Bi are just labels. It doesn't make you any different no matter what label you identify as.

I'm not understanding how you could have sex with a girl of try don't give you a *****. You do need a ***** to have sex, otherwise it's like trying to open a tuna can with a worm.

It feels wrong to you because you probably aren't 100% convinced that it's right. You sound like you are confused and uncertain about your sexual identity. Maybe some therapy is in order. You'll figure it out in time!

Anonymous · Answer

First off, whatever is going on with you is completely normal, happens to lots of people. Maybe you're a partial bisexual (meaning you like men and women, but you find men more attractive)? You shouldn't feel bad about how you use to be, you're different now and that's what matters. You should accept who you are and not beat yourself up about it.

greg j. · Answer

Say what?  You need counseling!!!!!

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