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Do girls like guys that are fat? Even if they're good looking?
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- quidagamusLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
Guys are visual and gals are less visual they are more interested in what is inside of a person. Now girls will be attracted to a certain type of man but it can and often does change after she gets to know him.
A lot depends on your age. A lot of teenage girls don't live honestly, they do what their friends do they do what they think will be popular so if you're a teenager even if they think you're attractive they might stay away because society frowns on fat people, society says that fat people aren't or can't be attractive.
Things are changing and I see a lot of changes in younger people some of them don't go along with the crowd, some go after what they like no matter what their peers say.
My grandmother always said there's a cover for every pot and there is. You are someone's fantasy. The trouble is finding them. Being a good guy is really important, noticing things about girls, their hair, their perfume, new clothes listening to them when they talk this means a great deal to them. They will notice if you are polite and respectful. Girls also admire a guy who is confident. I have found that often smaller girls or women are more attracted to a big guy because they feel safe with him and they feel like they will be protected.
Don't be shy, don't wait for the girl to come to you go out and talk to them make them feel special treat them well show them that you're special and things just might go your way. Don't be afraid to ask a girl out, but be specific. When you ask them out tell them when and what you'd like to do but be open to change plans if they say yes but don't volunteer that information. What is the worst thing a girl can say if you ask her out? No, she might say some other things and if she does then you know she doesn't have any class or respect and she's not the kind of person you really want to be associated with. So what if she says no, big deal just move on. Let me tell you there could be a lot of no's before you get a yes it's just part of the game that's how life works. When they say no let it go and move on to the next one. Don't think about why they said no it's not important.
Some girls won't like you if you're fat, some girls won't like you if you have red hair or you're short or tall, just like you're not going to be attracted to every girl you see.
- Anonymous8 years ago
You must be looking in the wrong places. If you have a great personality and are good looking, even if chunky, there are a myriad of girls that will go for you. Just as long as you are genuine, smart, comical and make a girl feel secure, you're golden. Try changing your hangout scene and the kind of girls you go for. Maybe you are trying to get the girl that is just out to score the quintessential jock instead of a good guy that's available. Are your standards too high? A lot of times guys try to go for their idea of a perfect ten and she just isn't interested. In this case it isn't because you're fat, she's just shallow. I have a couple girlfriends that love having a big guy as a boyfriend.
- Anonymous8 years ago
I know it's a cliche but girls really do prefer guys with personality.
Being good looking may attract girls but it does not keep them. Without a good personality the girls move on quickly.
- Anonymous8 years ago
could be, they are some "chubby chasers", just have to find them, but in general they would be less popular if fat.
of course things like personality are also important.