Divorce seems to be the end of life - MUST READ?

Grief has it's own timetable. There are things you can do to help it along.... new interests, new hobbies, new people, volunteering to help people who are dealing with a whole lot more than a broken heart, being outside a lot... get a good bike and bicycle about is good for all sorts of parts of you.. including mood, still... it's own timetable.

Commonly, people wake up one morning about three years later and find themselves feeling unsettlingly better. Keep physically active.. the rest will come along.

Yeah, by all means you weren't a perfect husband. Who is? But that doesn't mean you deserved to be cheated on. It certainly doesn't mean you deserve to be excluded from your children's lives. It sounds like you still have a strong urge to protect, but you can't because of the circumstances. Not sure if you can find a burning building, but there are plenty of puppies sitting in shelters who need saving. There are plenty of women who would love to take a shower with you. And there are still a couple kids who think you're they're hero, even though you don't get to see them as much as you want. I think the first thing might be to see if you can get more time with them. The most important thing to keep in mind is that feelings come and go, just like the waves of the ocean. They can be very overpowering, and it feels like life was always like that, but then they subside. You can let them whip you around, or you can try to find some agency and ride them out like a champ. The first step is just action. A new hobby, a new sport, a new girlfriend, or a new puppy could all give you a little bit of life that you feel is missing right now. So go sign up for a dating site, start training for a half marathon, and research a pet to keep you company when you're sad. And do see if you can spend more time with your children. It's heartbreaking that the things this woman did to you have meant you are divorced from them too. There's gotta be a way to have them more in your life.

The Wrongly spelled words are underlined with red waves, u click right button of your mouse on them. And instead of wallowing in your self pity maybe u should start living. If u have good job u will find a decent woman easily. But u must stop wallowing, u sound pathetic. I think u actually like living like this

some counseling would do you some good.

Pray to god and read the bible. Listen to christain songs. There is hope, love and peace in god.