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Am I doing something wrong?
I've been having a text conversation with a girl I really really like for maybe a hour and a half. It seems like it's going fine, but I'm asking most of the questions. Sometimes she responds right away, other times she doesn't respond for like 10 minutes. I try not to respond right away, leaving like 3 or 4 minutes between texts. And if I don't ask her a question to see if she'll ask me one, all she'll respond with like 5 minutes later is "hahaha" or something like that. I really like her, and she probably knows, but it's like pulling teeth trying to talk to her.
8 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
don't talk to her for a couple of days, she might feel smothered. People do other things besides texting all the day
- 8 years ago
Okay so I've been that girl haha and It wasn't at all that i was uninterested, I really liked him, he's actually my boyfriend now. I dunno its just hard to find things to talk about and to keep a conversation interesting like that as much as you might want to when you have been talking for so long, it tends to get boring. Sometimes I'd have to do something and get caught up before I was able to answer his text and I probably gave off the same impression you're getting from this girl. So what is your interest in her? If you're wanting to date her, get to the point. It can be just as frustrating for a girl to wait for a guy to tell you how they feel. Ask her out!! Its not like you're asking her to be your girlfriend, just ask her on a date. This will also save you some time if she is to turn you down. Good luck!!!
- ?Lv 48 years ago
Everything is fine. It is a game. She is trying to play hard to get through text, act like she is busy so you don't think she is just waiting for your response. It is so stupid lol I suggest calling that way you guys don't have to do this game. It is so immature just call and talk to her it is more intimate anyways and it'll show you like her and want to hear her voice. also leads to things faster than texting. Do not listen to the guys here telling you to back off she wouldnt have given you her number if she wasn't interested. I am pretty sure she likes you just has other things going on too. Calling is the best thing.
Source(s): I'm a woman - ?Lv 68 years ago
Well first off the question sounds like you have never met but only had conversations on computer. If that is the problem...you are better off not getting involved...could be a female scammer looking for money. If you have met then move slow get to know her face to face and then take another step forward.
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- JadeLv 58 years ago
Text conversations are not the best form of communication. Face to face is ideal, Skype is second best, phone calls are third best. Don't worry too much about what is said over text.
- 8 years ago
Start pulling off a bit. You may be coming off too strong. Back off and see if she initiates any of the conversations. Girls love attention and they know guys will give it to them if they are wanting to. Try seeing if she will text you after leaving her alone for a bit.
- 8 years ago
Pull back a bit. She may not feel the same way. She is probably busy too doing other things while texting you.
- 8 years ago
She might actually not like you the way you think she does. Seems to me that she probably has you there as her option 2 and when her option 1 decides to message her she forgets about you. And then when option 1 doesn't make her feel like she's important she will talk to you. Bottom line i think she's using you as a gap filler.
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