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Why hasn't he been texting me lately? 10 pts.?

So theres this guy and he does like me because he has said so, and we have texted everyday for the past 2-3 weeks. Then this friday he never texted me at all, neither did he on saturday, but after church on sunday he texted me for a little bit, then not at all on monday, then I had to text him on tuesday and everything went fine and we texted mostly all day.

I don't know why he hasn't been texting me? I talk to him, and this other guy but the other guy is like a brother to me, and he is the one I like, and he knows I like him too.

I do remember him getting jealous at one point, and he was like: What ya doing? and I said texting. and he said Who? and I said you and other people. Then later that night he said he was going to bed, hoped I sleep well, and all that and then I was like well who am I suppose to text now? and then he said something like well you can always text your boyfriend. Like I swear it said that all jealous like? Which I don't get but anyways please help?

Update:

I like the guy who I text everyday, I don't like the one thats like a brother to me**

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  • 8 years ago

    Are you willing to put other relationships to the side to be solely committed to your jealous crush? Obviously he doesn't Ike the fact that you are texting other guys and you have both communicated that you have feelings for each other. If you want to pursue a relationship with your crush, then don't do the things that turn him away from you. Jealousy is a big problem and if it gets out of hand can destroy people and relationships. When I got married, I stopped contacting all males that were not related. Very few guys do I contact today, still. Obviously y'all aren't married (I don't know how old you are, if that's even a possibility now) but, have some respect for his wishes and if y'all can work it out, great! If he doesn't respect you and the relationships you have established already, I'd say it's time to move on. You've not even begun dating and he's already that jealous so how do you think it will be as your relationship with him progresses?

  • Looks like a case of jealousy, but it could be that he's busy? It happens with me and my boyfriend.. But it won't go on for days.. Best thing you can do, trust me, if just talk to him about it. Guys love honesy. Its really the only way you'll know for sure. Anybody here can tell you anything but the only way to truly find out is by asking him yourself. I understand you may be nervous to talk to him but sometimes a simple "what's wrong?" can spill the beans :) good luck!!

  • 8 years ago

    Maybe he be busy..he DONT have TO text you Everyday !

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